by Gossip Queen

Arguing with your lover can be unpleasant, but do you know it causes the secretion of the same hormones as those secreted during sex? A great aphrodisiac, the best part about arguing is that you get to indulge in sinful make up sex later.  Trust us, there’s nothing like a romp between the sheets, after you have yelled our heart out. But it can be done better.

 

1. Keep yelling: No, we don’t mean you keep the fight going. Just keep your tone the same, but yell out his name and tell him how sexy you find him. It will turn him on like little else can.

2. Bossy pants: If it’s actually his fault, treat him like he has sinned. Even though your fight is over, make sure you tell him that you are mad at him and will be punishing him for it. Find ways to punish him in bed. Make him your slave and order him around so he does whatever you want.

3. Miss touch me not: The best part about make up sex is that it is hot and heavy. After the fight, your man would want to ravish you then and there. But you have to play elusive and not allow him to touch you. Only give him subtle hints that you are in the mood. The fact that he is unable to touch you will be a big turn on for your man; and when you finally do let him touch you, the result will be explosive.

4. Smack that ass: No, don’t get abusive in the sack. We are not telling you to go all ’50 Shades of Grey’ here. Just spank him to add to the pleasure during the act! Ask him to do the same to you and see the temperatures soaring.

5. Bondage sex: Yeah, now we are suggesting that you go the ’50 Shades of Grey’ way. You don’t need to get a red room of pain, but you sure can tie up his hands and blindfold him. Play the seductress and make him go weak in his knees; basically, do unspeakable things to him. Revenge has never been sweeter.

6. Beg him: If you are at fault and he is really angry, the puppy face is the way to go. A bit of theatrics never hurt anyone. 😛 Beg him to forgive you and make love to you on the spot.  Tell him you are sorry and that he can have his way with you. Great sex is bound to follow.

7. Striptease: Putting up a show to please your man always ends up with great results. To spice up make up sex, tell him he deserves a little treat for being patient with you.  Tease him and strip bit by bit, till he can’t wait any longer to make love to you.

8. Get competitive: There are better ways to solve a fight. Get competitive in the bed while you arouse each other.  The one who is better in the sack and has amazing tricks up his/her sleeve wins and the other has to bow down. A little bit of competition always adds passion to love-making.

9. Rough it up: You are fighting, remember. So it’s time you get out your imaginary gloves out and beat each other black and blue. Just kidding! Throw away your imaginary gloves and have a pillow fight instead. Some men like their woman strong and wouldn’t mind a wrestling match either. Let him tackle you in the bed and make love to you like never before.

10. Unemotional: A post-fight romp in the sack can be emotional and full of aggressive feelings. So surprise him by acting completely normal. Let him try all sorts of things to get you in the aggressive mood. His hard work will result in you reaching the big O (many times) for sure.

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