These are the 10 ways to know if your lover is SELFISH

by Stephanie Bailey

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This type of person will have no respect for your time, usually making plans with you last minute, and will get upset if you’re not available.

1. Everything starts to revolve around their needs. This person is very self-absorbed.

2. In order for them to possibly one day get married and have children, means that you have to revolve your life around theirs. Can you say self-centered?

3. They will expect you to understand and support their busy schedule and whatever plans they decide to make with or without you.

4. This type of person will have no respect for your time, usually making plans with you last minute, and will get upset if you’re not available.

5. With a selfish dater canceling dates a few hours or minutes before you were to see them becomes more frequent than the actual date itself. This becomes beyond annoying.

6. A selfish dater will also expect you to give them emotional support. This is of course one-sided leaving you feeling anything but special.

7. If you happened to be going through something in your life which needs their emotional support they will run the other direction like there’s a fire.

8. Selfish daters need relationships to be stress-free. If they are feeling any stress from you they will back away; calling and seeing you less or not at all.

9. You will always be less than secondary in a selfish dater’s life.

10. If you’re in a sexual relationship with this person, during foreplay, a selfish dater will expect you to “give”, but hardly ever or possible never “give” back. During sex they will only care about satisfying their needs. This ends up being very frustrating.

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