10 ways to take the lead in the bedroom

by Smitten Kitten

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If you’re in the dating phase, invite him over to spend the night with you. But, don’t play the coy game of pretending to invite him for coffee or to watch a funny video.

1. Demand it
If you want to have sex, don’t wait for him to come around and please you. If you want it, ask for it. He’s never going to wait if he wants you, so why should you?

2. Be on top
Skip the missionary position and doggie-style and get on top! Men find this super hot; plus you get to call the shots and control the movements. Bingo!

3. Surprise him
Before he asks you for favours, how about you go down on him without him saying a word? He is going to love you for this and will instantly return the favour. You could even wake him up in the middle of the night with a sexy surprise.

4. Tell him your desires
Admit it, we all have some sizzling desires and fantasies which no one speaks about. Tell your man in bed what dirty things you’d like to do to him or what you want him to do to you. Make sure you fulfil each other’s fantasies.

5. Join him in the shower
While he’s getting ready to go to work, sneak into the shower for a quickie. Who wouldn’t want to start their day with some hot and steamy shower sex?

6. Dirty talking
Women usually always shy away from talking dirty but this is a great way to turn him on. If you’re shy to do it face-to-face, you could text or email him about how much you want him or send him details of what you want in the bedroom.

7. Blindfold him
Push him on the bed and blindfold him. You could also tie his hands while you have your way with him. This is a great way to drop your inhibitions too.

8. Ask him to spend the night
If you’re in the dating phase, invite him over to spend the night with you. But, don’t play the coy game of pretending to invite him for coffee or to watch a funny video. Be upfront about it and tell him that you’d like to spend the night with him and want to know how he feels about that. We bet he feels great about it.

9. Change positions when you want to
During sex, change position when you feel like. Don’t ask him if it feels good; ask yourself if you like it. There’s no harm in being a little aggressive in bed; men find this very sexy. All he’ll be thinking about is satisfying you.

10. Lead him on
While watching TV or doing a chore together, abruptly whisper, “I need you, now!” and lead him to the bedroom.

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