by Tina L. Jones

Men can sometimes be pretty unsure of themselves when it comes to love. They might need the woman to make it clear that they are loved.

Are you wondering how you can make sure that he knows that you adore him? Do you want to make it clear that he is the one for you? Is your guy your one and only, but you want him to know it loud and clear? Be sure that you let him know that you love him, so that he knows where he stands. If you’re not sure how, follow these easy tips.

Men can sometimes be pretty unsure of themselves when it comes to love. They might need the woman to make it clear that they are loved. While you want to make sure that using these tips are well timed, you can be sure that they will make him feel like you can’t live without him.

Be His Friend
The sure way for him to know that you love him is if you are his friend as well. He needs to feel like you will care for him no matter what. Loving him means that even if you are super angry with him, if he needed you there would be nothing that you wouldn’t do for him. Show him you’re a good friend by listening to him when he needs you and by keeping his secrets sacred. If you’re able to be his closest friend, then he will know for sure that you love him.

Let Him Go Slow
In order for him to feel really loved, you should honor his need to move slowly in the emotional arena. Even if you are really into him, love him intensely, and can’t wait for him to feel the same, going at his pace will help him feel like you really love him and that he’s special, instead of just being another guy who you ended up with. Honoring him will make him feel very loved and encourage him to fall for you, too.

Feel Free to Open Up to Him (Within Reason)
If you really want to tell him with your words that you love him, it is suggested that you wait until he says it first. Even if you’ve been feeling it for a really long time, it can scare him or make him feel like something is wrong with him for not feeling the way you do. If you do decide to tell him, be sure that you tell him that it’s OK if he doesn’t feel the same way you do. Make sure that you tell him you won’t pressure him at all.

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