4 ways to know he has placed you in the ‘friend zone’

by JB

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So yes, if you’re attracted to someone, it’s always good to know EXACTLY if he’s into you or not. This will help you navigate to other seas and oceans and fish for a more interesting catch, if he isn’t into you like that.

People who were reluctantly shoved in this dreaded relationship label named the “friendzone,” complain that all there is to experience are frustration and misery for company. And hey, it’s not just the men. A fair share of ladies have also experienced this black hole.

So yes, if you’re attracted to someone, it’s always good to know EXACTLY if he’s into you or not. This will help you navigate to other seas and oceans and fish for a more interesting catch, if he isn’t into you like that.

Here are some of the signs to look for if you have been deemed “just a friend” by a male companion you’re attracted to:

1. He shamelessly shares his disgusting habits (e.g. farting or snorting) with you early on in your interaction.

Look, there’s a clear line that separates him from being nice and comfortable in your presence from being side-lined as potential mate. He’s not into you when he doesn’t think twice demonstrating his cringing horrible ways.

2. The guy shares intimate details — and I mean REALLY intimate details — of his previous bed warmers with you. 

Don’t think that he’s doing it because he’s letting you into his life. This means you’re just one of the guys. (Ouch!)

3. Calling you derogatory names.

Hearing him call you names like ‘hοe,’ ‘bítch,’ or  ‘skank’, is NOT a sign of his affection for you.

4. No matter how drop-dead gorgeous this guy is, or how much he laughs at your jokes EVERY SINGLE TIME, isn’t doesn’t mean that he finds your sense of humor sweet and funny.

And when he snorts and pisses himself laughing all the time – I don’t think he has plans in declaring his undying love and devotion to you.

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