Drop-dead gorgeous 36-year-old virgin reveals the secrets to practicing abstinence (PICTURED)


Practicing abstinence is probably one of the most challenging things to do. Your mind, spirit, and body are constantly in conflict as you decide which one (or two) is the most accurate.

Aside from the benefits of practicing abstinence that are taught in the Christian faith, refraining from sex has been scientifically proven to be successful for women who are seeking marriage. Scientists believe women who “play hard to get” are able to assess a man who will stick by her side during pregnancy.

Forty-three-year-old Lakita Garth was a 36-year-old virgin in 2005 when she kissed her boyfriend-turned-husband for the first time. Garth has gone public about her 36 years of virginity and is now helping other women around the world learn how to refrain from sex prior to marriage.

Excerpts from her interview are below:

On Her Family’s Influence on Her Choice:

In my family, if you had sex outside of marriage, someone got married, or someone got shotI come from a line of Christians that believe your faith must impact the culture. It has to go farther than your personal relationship with Christ.

On Choosing a Mate that Is Not Into the Church:

You can’t be the key to his spiritual maturity.

Her Advice to Singles:

To be single was to be undistracted in my devotion to God. Keep your options open. God’s perfect mate for you may not look or sound like your ‘fantasy mate’.

One commenter with the user name “Chris” did not agree with Garth’s advice. He responded to her interview saying: “The Bible does not make any of the claims that this article makes about sexual purity before marriage. The abstinence model of Christianity is an inherited tradition and not a hard and fast line which the Bible draws. “Don’t have sex before marriage!” they say. Why? The Bible says we should abstain from “sexual immorality.” What is sexual immorality? “Sex before marriage,” they say. Says who? It is a tradition, not an inviolable maxim — a tradition which made sense in earlier cultures where everyone married AND they did so at a young age. Sex before marriage is certainly a risky venture, but articles like these unnecessarily shame devoted lovers who have not yet overcome the logistical hurdles of holding a wedding. In all honesty, the girl in this article sounds totally self-absorbed/self-righteous, some of the most disgusting traits for a Christian to have. We should NOT be holding her up as a model for Christian women.”

Who do you agree with: Lakita or Chris?

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  • I agree with Larkita. She is pretty yet chaste. Many ladies loose it bcos dy ar alwayz carried away by dia beauty. Its gud 2 abstain 4rm sex b4 marriage n it is doable. It starts with an individual. U av 2 b determined n also ask God 2 help u. D bible says abstain. We wer instructd 2 do so bcos God knws we can. Chris is so so dumb. He his just out der 2 mislead pple. God wld judge him.

    Seyitan December 21, 2012 6:29 am
  • it’s biblical all unmarried christian should abstain from sex, so on garth side she practice true christianity…………and am happy about that

    prosper December 21, 2012 7:01 am
  • Those who did not place any value on their body and could not abstain from sex until marriage will talk down on this great feat. Many have become slaves to sex because they could not wait. Abstinence until marriage is the real deal. Be sure not to also engage in virtual sex while you wait.

    @fredor4c December 21, 2012 11:21 am
  • The real Deal still remains Abstinence, the fact that Chris beleives otherwise does not change the fact that it is still Gods standard. The most honourable and sensible thing to do, she is not even the first, countless others have kept the standard. Thank God for this Ladies testimony

    Victor December 21, 2012 5:18 pm
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