Friend zone: 7 reasons why she wants to be ‘just-friends’ with you

by Ankush Bahuguna

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Ever wonder why some friendships just never move to the next level, regardless of how much ‘in love’ the two partners are? Avoid it all you can, but you will still land up in the friendzone sometime or the other.

We help you understand why she wants to be ‘just friends’ with you.

You Make Her Feel Rejected

Once you give her the ‘no romantic inclination’, it’s hard to change it. Because she’s seen youflirting with other women but never make a pass at her, she has secretly assumed you might never be genuinely interested in her.

You’re Not Manning U

Women tend to think a little too much. You cannot expect them to understand how you developed feelings for her overnight when you were ‘just friends’ the previous day. If you take too long to confess your love, they start doubting your feelings.

She Thinks You’re Afraid

Women like fearless men. You may not realise but your fear of rejection is very evident to her. If you’re playing too safe, it will send out a signal that you want an easy way out and do not have the confidence that it takes to woo her.

You Don’t Make Her Feel Wanted

It is every woman’s dream to be the most desirable to her man. Every time she sees youapproaching other women, preferring them over her, she assumes that she is not desirable to you.

She Hasn’t Seen You The Way She Should

She has only looked at you as a dear friend until now. Maybe you haven’t given her a chance to notice how well built you are. Maybe she doesn’t know how well you flirt.

She Isn’t Sexually Attracted To You

Women may never say it out loud, but sexual attraction does play a major role in their relationships with men. It is not so much about your physical appearance as it is about how you are to her. Impress her by your confidence and charm and you might just have a chance.

You Haven’t Asked Her Out On A Date

Even today, most girls expect their men to take them out on a date. You may have gone out on several lunches with her before, but we’re talking about a formal date here. Make the fact clear that you want your bond to move to the next level, before you lose her.

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