by Heather Jensen

A guy that can handle every one of your mood swings and your insecurities deserves you!

There are many different signs he is a keeper that you should watch out for, especially if you are having doubts! If your boyfriend puts you first, can handle you at your worst and can actually have a conversation about the future without cringing, then you’ve got to take a look at all of my signs he is a keeper, as they are all on here! Take a look below girls, if your boyfriend is topping the charts on your ‘husband’ list!

1. HE PUTS YOU FIRST

Does your man constantly put you first? Does he make choices based on you and what you are doing? Does he work around your schedule and really work to accommodate you? Does he even pick out all kinds of your favorite foods just to make sure that you have things to eat? Are you constantly on his mind, always? This is absolutely one of the top signs he is a keeper!

2. HE’S THERE FOR YOU

Is your guy there for you in all aspects of everything? Is he there for you when the times are tough and when you are having emotional problems? If your man is willing to drive from his house to yours at 3:00am, because you had a bad dream, he is absolutely a keeper, girls!

3. HE LIKES YOUR QUIRKS

All of us have quirks. Admit it. You have yours, I have mine and your boyfriend has his. If he appreciates your quirks and actually likes them, then that is actually a sign that he is a keeper! After all, who wouldn’t want a guy that loves your quirks and loves every weird thing about you?

4. AFFECTIONATE WITHOUT SHAME

PDA is typically a hot button for most guys, but if your guy is all about the affection, no matter who is around, then he’s definitely a keeper. That doesn’t mean that you need to go around making out in front of your friends, but still – if he isn’t shy to kiss or touch you in public, that’s a sign!

5. HE’S VERY KIND

Is he generally kind to other people? Is he someone that would send a watch back if it got sent to him wrongly? Is he the type of guy that would help an older lady go grocery shopping just because? That’s definitely a sign, girls! A sign that he is a keeper!

6. VERY CONSISTENT

What about being stable? Is he super stable, totally consistent and he doesn’t have a whole lot of ups and downs in his emotions? That’s a sign, girls! There are so many girls out there that wish that their guy was super stable and consistent, so keep that in mind!

7. TALK OF THE FUTURE

What about the future? Does he constantly talk about the future? Does he constantly mention marriage and even mention kids someday? Those are all of the signs pointing to him being a keeper. Trust me, it’s rare for a guy to want to get married!

8. HE CAN HANDLE YOUR EMOTIONS

In the words of our beautiful Marilyn Monroe: “I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” Why would you expect any less? A guy that can handle every one of your mood swings and your insecurities deserves you! Although guys can be confusing, there are tons of guys that are keepers! So girls, is your guy a keeper? Do you think that he’s a keeper? What other signs are out there to prove that he’s a keeper? ————————- Read this article in All Women Stalk     Op-ed pieces and contributions are the opinions of the writers only and do not represent the opinions of Y!/YNaija.