by Chinwe Okafor

Attention all men who make up crappy excuses to avoid wearing condoms: Swedish singer Zara Larsson has some words for you — and one pointed Instagram photo.

On Jan. 5, the 17-year-old singer posted a picture on Instagram of her leg encased in a condom, nearly up to the knee. The caption reads: “To all the guys saying ‘my dick is too big for condoms’ TAKE A SEAT”

While Larsson’s post is certainly funny — it’s safe to assume that no man believes his penis is larger than a leg — she brings up an important point. The decision whether or not to use a condom needs to be a discussion between a man and his sexual partner. And that conversation shouldn’t require the use of begging, cajoling or making excuses as to why the use of contraception simply isn’t possible. The right to avoid pregnancy and/or the contraction of an STI trumps a dude’s preference for what “feels good.”

Larsson published a post on her personal blog on Jan. 6, responding to the celebratory reaction her Instagram photograph has received:

 

 

To all the guys saying “my dick is too big for condoms” TAKE A SEAT

A photo posted by Zara Larsson (@zaralarsson) on Jan 5, 2015 at 12:40pm PST