Kay Aishida: Ladies, would you ask him out on a date? (Y! Superblogger)

The fact about is that over 80 per cent of guys especially in this part of the world are immature, opportunistic, sadistic Egotists!

“Hey dude! Erm… Will you be my boyfriend?”

… and so Agatha choked on those words as she stared at Folajimi’s image in her bedroom mirror.

She couldn’t believe that she of all ladies could stoop so low to the point of asking a guy…  Any guy out. True, Folajimi was someone we’d easily like to refer to as the street’s finest. But Agatha was also a knockout. Standing at 6ft 1in in her 3inch shoes, Agatha was a pretty babe long straight legs whose figure could best be described as ‘Wow’.

In essence, any sane guy will fall over himself to even as much as hug her let’s not even talk of dating her but here was Fola, a real close friend,a guy she liked so much and who seemed to like her but dude just didn’t seem to be acting sane.

Now there are two types of guys; the bold ones that will go in for the conquest when they have their sights set on a lady that they like and they’ll ‘attack‘ the lady head on. But we also have the second class of guys who however dismissive they may be, in the presence of ladies they like, their heart goes into hyperdrive. And when it’s time to tell the ladies how they feel, their tongue cleaves to their palate. Permanently.

Folajimi was the latter…

And Agatha knew it.

So she decided to skip the come-ons and take the full lead.

“There’s nothing wrong with it!”  She convinces her image in the mirror.

“This dude is crazy about me. I can tell. So what if he’s too lily-livered to admit it, I could simply help him out. Abi naa?

“He’s my kind of guy and I understand his insecurities around a hot babe like me and I love him more for it so I’ll just simply pop the question and I know he’ll stammer his ‘yes’ and we both live happily ever after. What’s wrong with that?”

If you ask me, readers, there’s nothing wrong with that. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with ladies asking a guy she likes out. I think it’s rather brave of the lady and I think they should be respected for it.

If a lady meets a guy that she’s absolutely bonkers over, I’m not saying she should rush over and break an Alabastar box over his feet. No!

What I’m saying is, if it so happens that they both establish communication over a period of time a lady can get to know to a reasonable extent the kind of guy she’s dealing with.

Is he usually a bullish-bull or a tongue-twister? If he’s the bullish-bull, let him put himself in other and say it. That shouldn’t take too long to happen in any case. If he’s a tongue-twister though… I honestly don’t see anything wrong in loosening your own tongue and helping the bungling dude out.

I honestly don’t.

It doesn’t make you slutty, not even in the very least. (Unless you’re throwing your body at him in the hope of becoming the empress of his empire!)

I have seen and heard of ladies who have had to rue the fact that they let an absolute angel of a guy end up with another lady just because they didn’t offer the guy more help than they should. The gospel truth is that they’re so many guys like that out there who need help. They like you a whole lot but because of the fear of how they might take it if you refuse them, they’d rather just be content with living in the friend zone than getting their advances spat back in their timid faces… Or so they think.

I took a survey online and truth is that 80 per cent actually stated that they’d ask a guy they like out and I must admit I was impressed.

There’s a downside to this though so I won’t exactly blame the 20 per cent that wouldn’t.

The fact about is that over 80 per cent of guys especially in this part of the world are immature, opportunistic, sadistic egotists!

I’ll explain why in the sequel.

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Kay Aishida is simply known to his readers as BlogAces. Predictably, his posts are called BlogAce’s Posts and he tweets @blog_aces. He writes about life generally and tries to lace it with humour.

 

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