Trey Songz has kicked off one woman’s new year with a bang. The singer popped up at her home, gave her tickets to his concert in Dallas-Fort Worth, and answered her burning questions.

The contest was advertised on Dallas-Fort Worth’s K104 radio station and the winner, Wanda, was awarded with a $1,000 Macy’s shopping spree and a limo ride to Trey Songz concert. She had no idea Trey Songz would actually appear at her doorstep. When she opened the door for the singer, she instantly cried tears of joy — which were romantically wiped away by him.

When it came time to ask the singer questions, Wanda asked him why is he single and how big is his “little man.”

Here’s the answer to her first question:

On why he’s single:

It’s difficult. It’s very difficult to be in a real relationship. You can have somebody that you like but …until I’m ready to give that much of myself…

I don’t give myself the amount of time I think I deserve for me so I don’t think I can give all that a person deserves in a relationship right now.

Watch the video of the occasion below:

– Naturally Moi