by Marcelle Sussman Fischler
Signs that you’re about to get dumped. Body language isn’t the only way to tell.
Is your partner hostile towards you? Does your partner criticize or mock you in front of friends or family? Does your partner say ‘I Love You’ while acting in a different manner? Does your significant other refuse to acknowledge or make an effort to meet your needs? You may be in a toxic relationship.
The strongest relationships require lots of hard work. Like a garden, you wouldn’t expect it to thrive if you didn’t tend to it with lots of work or water it with TLC. But it has to be a joint effort. You can’t tend the garden, or your relationship, alone.
A bad or unsatisfying marriage or relationship can be stressful, and bad for your health. Here are some tips to get past the years of hurt and resentment.
Constant fights or ignoring each other are both signs of an unhappy relationship. But there are ways to overcome the unhappiness and move forward together.
Is your partner cutting off arguments, saying that he has heard it all before? Is he more absorbed in his new flat screen TV and playing with his smart phone than talking to you? Is there a chill in the air as you silently each dinner together, regardless of the weather? These may be red flags indicating that your partner is unhappy with your relationship.
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