Big brother Naija housemate TBoss was assaulted by Kemen yesterday and he was disqualified and given the boot. You should have seen the uproar that caused.

The bone of contention became why Big Brother punished Kemen for something that TBoss had asked for, ‘tacitly’ and otherwise.

This, inspite of the video that told a different tale.

In case you missed Kemen's Perverted act on Tboss #bbnaija

Pls Retweet So others can watch

Kindly follow us 4more pic.twitter.com/UTjOF9Xkwc

— #Live pictures (@livepicturesltd) March 5, 2017

Regardless of that clip, some persons have difficulty grabbing the exact meaning of consent.

Kemen's act last nite is reprehensible. But there's a seeming tacit consent frm TBoss. So "sexual molestation" doesn't even arise. #bbnaija

— Mr. Cornells! (@itsMrCornells) March 5, 2017

There's no Consent there whatsoever

— Honeysuckle (@AspirantRecluse) March 5, 2017

https://twitter.com/itsMrCornells/status/838343008626094080

The #BBNaija viewing public usually blow little things out of proportion! I won't succumb to such anyway…

— Mr. Cornells! (@itsMrCornells) March 5, 2017

But i started by noting that "Kemen's act last nite is reprehensible."

— Mr. Cornells! (@itsMrCornells) March 5, 2017

Look at his action, her reaction isn't what you should be addressing. https://t.co/QuxUzbOJ5K

— Keppy (@keppy3vs16) March 5, 2017

You should have ended there, her silence or reaction didn't mean approval, she was clearly harassed. https://t.co/VZeddtFKqS

— Keppy (@keppy3vs16) March 5, 2017

lol! I've watch d clip severally, TBoss knowingly or unknowingly gave her "tacit consent". Her faculties became intact @ a point

— Mr. Cornells! (@itsMrCornells) March 5, 2017

Kemen lacks Self Control I agree.

But

Tboss sent a Wrong Message, She Opened her Breast in front of Him when he helped washing her Hair.

— Linus (@linusNoni) March 5, 2017

So if I open fresh jollof for your front, e mean say make you chook spoon? Ma gun e ni fork l'abiya guy. https://t.co/SaabZJpp5t

— ais the Great (@BabaOloriokoBB) March 5, 2017

You can therefore understand Edwin’s (@DwinTheStoic) frustration that a matter which speaks for itself should still be horribly misunderstood.

I've spent the better part of the last hour trying to think of how much I'd have to dumb down a piece on consent for some people to get it.

— #HeavyHeart July 11th (@DwinTheStoic) March 5, 2017

Wht analogies do I have 2 use? Are there any left? Can I possibly say "a person has a right to their body regardless of gender" another way?

— #HeavyHeart July 11th (@DwinTheStoic) March 5, 2017

How do you tell them "it's a normal thing guys do" is never and should never have been an excuse for anything in the first place.

— #HeavyHeart July 11th (@DwinTheStoic) March 5, 2017

How do you even begin to educate a man who was raised to believe a woman's body is his to tamper with based on its proximity to him.

— #HeavyHeart July 11th (@DwinTheStoic) March 5, 2017

When I find these answers then we'll attack rape culture with them. But until then, let's not raise another generation that thinks like this

— #HeavyHeart July 11th (@DwinTheStoic) March 5, 2017

Consent would be the course that would make a lot of people have extra years, if of course it was included in a schools curriculum.

— K.C (@ehmayeka) March 5, 2017

It's clear that many of you refuse to "understand" consent because it's inconvenient for you and that's such a crying shame

— Abike (@Jollz) March 5, 2017

Such a shame!