Nigeria is such a strange place. Matters that are black and white elsewhere take on a coat of many colours in Nigeria.

For instance, it is quite clear, more so with the evidence presented, that a sleeping person cannot consent to sex. In Nigeria, it isn’t. So tweets like these sampled below abound.

Video Evidence

Peep the guilty look Kemen gave the camera 1st before touching Tboss. This is what got him disqualified just incase you missed it. #BBNaija pic.twitter.com/HQ5l0SzGfj

— Abby Oyebade (@AbbyOyebade) March 5, 2017

Dumb

I am still looking for what it is he did that Tboss was not aware of. It didn't look like she struggled with him https://t.co/zO8c0zyXqj

— Felicia Ogonna (@defunkyfactory) March 5, 2017

I didn't see anything that looked like sexual harassment in that video https://t.co/BVfxzRxRVT

— Felicia Ogonna (@defunkyfactory) March 5, 2017

Look I believe if it were to be someone else like Jon who did exactly what kemen did, most will be cool with it but cuz he ugly.. ? #BBNaija

— TEDDY ? (@cutegeek20) March 5, 2017

She complains bout bally and Jon not using the toilet properly but says nothing to kemen for touching her. Its clear enough #BBNaija

— TEDDY ? (@cutegeek20) March 5, 2017

Response

If sexual harassment has to be aggressive before you see the violation of a person, their body and their dignity, that is unfortunate. https://t.co/amZGSMuRUE

— Akin Akíntáyọ̀ #FBPE (@forakin) March 5, 2017

Was she violated? Yes!
Did she give consent? No!
Anything else that happened after that is out of unwarranted persistence.#BBNaija

— Akin Akíntáyọ̀ #FBPE (@forakin) March 5, 2017

So much of our cultural schooling leads us to default into masochistic victimhood that we don't know when we have been abused. #BBNaija

— Akin Akíntáyọ̀ #FBPE (@forakin) March 5, 2017

Dumber

You slept on the same bed with a guy that isn't your brother and you expect him to sleep without touching you? Smh.

— El Jefe (@norquer) March 6, 2017

I will train my daughter not to show a man her breast or any private part, and be in his bed if she'll not want to have sex him. #BBNaija

— Olukayode Osoba (@OlukayodeOsoba) March 6, 2017

Responses

You are implying that men can't control themselves, and that society/women shouldn't expect them to. This is untrue and barbaric. https://t.co/BlykBuu3oR

— orwelliANDYstopia (@andyRoidO) March 6, 2017

Nigeria has a long way to go. https://t.co/09YpuIccp3

— K (@Damocleansword) March 6, 2017

Beginning to seem like this hypothesis about #MenInSuit on DPs has small sense. https://t.co/3q76xvSwDq

— Editi Effiòng (@EditiEffiong) March 6, 2017

Train your son not to touch anyone without consent, no matter how many breasts or "private part" he sees. Train him not to be an animal. https://t.co/oaTpZzTcjd

— orwelliANDYstopia (@andyRoidO) March 6, 2017

Dumbest

If you know you don't want a sexual relationship with a man, Stay in your house

If the man is a perv, you were not forced to sleep over?

— Mo? (@Sandymonajj) March 6, 2017

If the man's head doesn't want to be correct, you should be able to give yourself sense

— Mo? (@Sandymonajj) March 6, 2017

Yes, sleeping at a man's house doesn't give him a right to touch you or have sex

But it's his house,why are you there? He's at an advantage

— Mo? (@Sandymonajj) March 6, 2017

Give yourself the advantage, not him

— Mo? (@Sandymonajj) March 6, 2017

Now, a situation whereby you had no choice but to be in his house is different..

Then you're 100% without fault?

— Mo? (@Sandymonajj) March 6, 2017

Responses

Substitute working for ‘sleeping’, office for ‘house.’ Victim blaming is most insidious tool of oppression.

— Koyejo Adebakin (@KAdebakin) March 6, 2017

You started well then ended with gibberish. Tragic https://t.co/AfTDmpjoHP

— folz (@thevainaddict) March 6, 2017

*Sigh*