Some days ago, financial analyst Oluwatosin Olaseinde, explored the concept of domestic violence victims being enablers of their own abuse. Today, @biolaojo_ tells the story of a woman who took it upon herself to marry a particular dude, and the drama that ensued, we can say for free, is not at all worth the trouble she went through to become Mrs.

Two short stories coming up

— 'Biola Ojo (@biolaojo_) November 22, 2016

Woman meets man (sarewagba). Nigga wanted to do and go. Constantly showing his demonic spirit. But woman wants to marry. By fire by force

— 'Biola Ojo (@biolaojo_) November 22, 2016

Shows up to the niggas house unannounced countless times. Had to wait outside on the stairs countless times. Was beating up countless times

— 'Biola Ojo (@biolaojo_) November 22, 2016

But NO! She must marry dead ass nigga. Because his mum likes her. Because he was first to debe. Because her mates are marrying

— 'Biola Ojo (@biolaojo_) November 22, 2016

SOme years later.

Body battered, mentally unbalanced. She's broke too. Been supporting the man since honeymoon.

— 'Biola Ojo (@biolaojo_) November 22, 2016

Wharrapund?

Turns out sister married herself. Paid all the wedding bills. Rent house, buy car.

Paid for her own honeymoon!

— 'Biola Ojo (@biolaojo_) November 22, 2016

Innocent brother thought her family was rich so he quit his job ??

Family thought Nigga was rich, so they upped their demands

— 'Biola Ojo (@biolaojo_) November 22, 2016

After baby 2, sister's funds started thinning out.

Gold digging brother realised he had been had. Wahala con start!

— 'Biola Ojo (@biolaojo_) November 22, 2016

As a Nigerian demon, he decided to waste the rest of Aunty ' s funds on beer and teenage girls.

Who is winning?

— 'Biola Ojo (@biolaojo_) November 22, 2016

Shine your eyes. That's all! pic.twitter.com/xMcsiI9vBs

— 'Biola Ojo (@biolaojo_) November 22, 2016

Woman 2.

Pre wedding pictures oro! Mad ass society wedding! Blinds and bridesmaids

8 years and 3 babies later. Oga walked out.

— 'Biola Ojo (@biolaojo_) November 22, 2016

Marriage is not by force. There are worse things than being unmarried.