Marriage is a topic that cannot get exhausted. Too many angles to explore; too many new revelations and old issues to rehash. @FoluShaw has dished some food for thought for those who are contemplating marriage and those who have already tied the knot.
Please see below:
It's easy to fall in love.
It's easy to want to get married.
It's difficult to commit your life to d well being of another human being.
— Folu (@FoluShaw) October 16, 2016
And that's exactly what we don't realize
That's after the bespoke tuxedo and honey moon in the south of France, its gets all the way real.
— Folu (@FoluShaw) October 16, 2016
That commitment without losing ur sense of self is where d problem is. A lot of spouses literally die to make their marriages survive.
— Folu (@FoluShaw) October 16, 2016
Death of self inform of numerous sacrifices. Just to make the other person happy. I'll give examples that r not really gender specific.
— Folu (@FoluShaw) October 16, 2016
Most people before they get married work really hard at work. But once married, they want to get home earlier and take care of their spouse.
— Folu (@FoluShaw) October 16, 2016
So your investment banker BF/GF that used to close at 8pm starts to close at 6pm because their marriage needs quality time.
— Folu (@FoluShaw) October 16, 2016
Every marriage deserves quality time. But those who know….know. That change in length of work hours can be an appraisal issue. Scary.
— Folu (@FoluShaw) October 16, 2016
That's the sort of commitment marriages/relationships need.
So u go from being an A-star staff to managing an A because u got married.
Sad
— Folu (@FoluShaw) October 16, 2016
That's the sort of commitment marriages/relationships need.
So u go from being an A-star staff to managing an A because u got married.
Sad
— Folu (@FoluShaw) October 16, 2016
Next: before u got married, y'all used to do date night on Fridays, have drinks, sing karaoke & retire to cuddles and pillow talk. But now?
— Folu (@FoluShaw) October 16, 2016
Time to send that memo to Le boo.
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