by Gossip Queen

 

Challenge your man not to make any sound while making love and you follow suit. Because of that your other senses will be heightened and you will respond better to each other. Also the tension of not being able to scream out loud with passion will add to it all.

 

Are you up for a challenge? Is there a woman inside you ready to experiment and try out new things, not just in her career but also between the sheets? Raise the temperatures even higher this summer and challenge your partner to try out these kinky challenges with you. With better love making comes better love too, don’t you think?

Lotion up:

Offer to apply lotion on your man’s body and get to work. Spread the lotion all over his body with the help of… wait for it… your breasts. Keep doing it and challenge him to not touch you while you’re at it.  Let’s see how long he can keep his hands off you.

Not a stitch on:

Make your mornings special by daring your man to do his morning routine without any clothes on, and of course, you do the same. Take a shower, eat breakfast, put on make up and pack your briefcase without a stitch on. We promise you, you will be late for work.

Kiss me:

Challenge your man to kiss you for about 30 minutes without going below the waist. Pleasurable for sure! Plus, studies have shown that kissing brings a couple closer. So get to it now!

Hands off:

Stripping each other always adds to the pleasure.  But do it with a twist. Take each other’s clothes off with only your mouths. He can help you undo the buttons and fly but no more. As you peel off his clothes, nip his neck, bite his ear lobe and turn him. Foreplay doesn’t get better than this.

Cum on:

Go down on him and don’t stop till he climaxes. Make sure you ask him to return the favour and climax again and again. It’s the best way to make sure that he will give his 100 per cent when down on you. Give head and get ahead.

Mute:

Challenge your man not to make any sound while making love and you follow suit. Because of that your other senses will be heightened and you will respond better to each other. Also the tension of not being able to scream out loud with passion will add to it all.

Food & sex:

Food and sex make for a great combination. Eat food off him or better yet challenge him to do body shots off you without dropping a single droplet on you. If he does drop then he will have to be punished with whatever punishment you deem fit.

Hot & cold:

Blindfold him and then rub his entire body with ice. Softly blow on those regions where you have rubbed the ice. The earlobe, neck and of course, his genitals are the most sensitive part of his body, so make sure not to miss them.  Do it on his nipples to arouse him. And all this while he is not allowed to move nor squirm with pleasure… or the torture will continue.

Challenge yourself:

It’s time to give him some pleasure by challenging yourself. Dare yourself to put a condom on your man with your mouth.  You will have to use only your tongue and your lips to grasp. Trust us, he will love it.

Sex it up:

There are numerous sex positions for you to try but making one of your own which gives pleasure to both of you is the best. Invent a sex position that both of you will enjoy and give it a name. It will be your little secret and create fond memories that will last forever.

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