Sometimes, you encounter people whom you click with instantly and you just can’t seem to have enough of them. You kick off on a high note and at some point, the relationship is at a low.
Today, he/she is declaring love and tomorrow they are not picking your calls. But they just show up again like a monitoring spirit when you are starting to consider someone else. When you begin to give them attention again, they completely grow cold on you.
I compare these kinds of people to PHCN in Nigeria because of their epileptic show of power supply. In fact, UP NEPA LOVER for better emphasis.
This set of people are just in your life to waste your time. They are very aware that you really like them and they are certainly using that against you.
They like to be with you but they probably are considering other people too and they don’t want to be tied to you so that you don’t spoil their parole. They may even be so nice when you are together but they won’t commit at a hundred percent because they don’t know exactly what they want.
Ditch your UP NEPA Lover this year because they aren’t taking you anywhere near the altar but far away from it. If you want your Pastor’s crossover night prophecy to be fulfilled, please stay very far away from them.
SIGNS OF AN UP NEPA LOVER
1) They call you only when they are bored
2) They don’t communicate intensely after a date.
3) They don’t always pick your calls or reply messages often.
4) They do not like to spend so much when you’re out on a date because they take many people out.
5) They “Friend Zone” you when you meet their friends.
6) They call you a lot when they need your help.
7) They are majorly inconsistent… blowing hot and cold.
Please, guard your heart from falling for these set of people because they wouldn’t commit to you yet they would try to hold you down.
It is never too late to live happily ever after.
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Lara Kudayisi-Emeralds of ‘The Matchmaking Mistress’, is on Twitter and Instagram: @larakudayisi
