by Honest Liar
Create an opportunity for him to cheat. Tell him that you’re going out with the ladies a week or so in advance. Then when date comes, stakeout your house and see if took the opportunity to cheat.
Ladies, my heart goes out to all of you. You have it rough. Always wondering if your man is lying, what he’s lying about, etc…, all leading to the greatest fear — possible infidelity. But you may be suprised to find out that not all lies your man tells you are to hide infidellity. Here you’ll learn of 4 types of lying boyfriends.
The freedom-seeking lying boyfriend
This boyfriend comes out when his girlfriend becomes to possessive. “Where are you going? What took you so long? When are you coming back?”…etc. This constant barrage of questioning makes guys feel like they don’t belong to themselves anymore, like they no longer have any autonomy. So what do they do to get back at you? Lie. This is more of a passive-aggressive response than actual deception. They do it just be done with the interrogation get to what they want to do. It’s also a way to maintain some semblance of power in the relationship.
My suggestion is to easy up on the constant interrogation and ask the most pertinent questions. Of course, you should still feel free to exchange pleasantries (e.g. So how was your day, dear?)
The power-seeking lying boyfriend
The lying boyfriend who just wants to stay with you
The unfaithful lying boyfriend
How to catch him
- More emotional distance and less passion that before
- Changes in speech patterns and scheduling
- If he drives a car, check his speedometer to see if he has more miles than he should
- Create an opportunity for him to cheat. Tell him that you’re going out with the ladies a week or so in advance. Then when date comes, stakeout your house and see if took the opportunity to cheat.
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