by Health Me Up

 Look your woman in the eye, reassure her with your look that you are there just for her pleasure and everything you will do will have one express purpose, her pleasure. 

Oral sex is one of the most intimate sexual acts, which occurs between a man and a woman. In this article we discuss our top oral sex tips for both men and women.

Oral sex is both a science and an art form, one that can easily be mastered, if you look at it from the perspective of the one receiving it and amend your technique accordingly.

Oral sex is one of the most intimate experiences you can share with your lady love. Too many men though seem intent on ruining the experience, simply because they just don’t know any better. Here are 5 easy to remember tips.

Be gentle: The number one turn off for a woman is when her man takes the word ‘eat’ too literally. In this context take the word ‘eat’ to mean, lick, kiss and gently nibble.

Please shave: For the love of all that’s good and true, don’t forget to shave, before you go down on your lady. There is nothing more turning off than rug burns caused by your rough facial hair on the sensitiveskin of a woman’s pubic region.

Remember, wetter is better: Make oral sex a wet and somewhat sloppy experience for your partner. Don’t just use saliva, but also use a lubricant, to make sure there is adequate moisture and lubrication.

Always maintain eye contact: Look your woman in the eye, reassure her with your look that you are there just for her pleasure and everything you will do will have one express purpose, her pleasure. Look at her and use your mouth and lips to the fullest. Very hot indeed!

Respond to her moans: Use her auditory cues as signs that she likes something you’re doing and continue doing whatever it is you’re doing with even greater intensity. Always keep a ear out for her groans of pleasure and aspire to double them in intensity and occurrence.

A man’s tool isn’t something to be taken lightly. While giving him great oral sex isn’t rocket science, here are 5 quick tips you can use to make sure, your technique is the best he’s ever experienced.

Tease him, he’ll love it: Remember, don’t be all business like and go straight for the ‘kill’. Tease him a little, make him really,really want to feel your lips down there. And even when you get there, delay it a bit. Kiss it, blow lightly on the head and don’t be afraid to give it a lick or two as well. Remember prolong his anticipation as much as possible.

Don’t forget to use your hands: Giving your man head, isn’t just about slobbering all over his penis. Remember to use your hands in combination with your mouth and tongue, use slow, long strokes and make sure you can see his eyes close and react to your touch. Remember to adjust the pressure and your grip according to the non verbal cues you receive.

Respond to his moans: If he’s moaning an awful lot, there is a high probability you’re doing something right. Reward his moans with a greater intensity of sucking, licking and pumping.

Always maintain eye contact: Look your man in the eye and look at him such that the intensity of your desire is conveyed, while you’re giving him the best oral sex he’s received. For a man, there’s nothing sexier than a woman, who is supremely confident in her sexual repertoire.

Deep throating: Take your man’s member, deep into your mouth and create a vacuum with your cheeks and throat. This is a technique that will bring him to the brink of orgasm in no time. One word of caution though, remember to breathe in and out through your nose while you do this.

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