by MensXP Team
Sit with her and recall the day when you had gone on your first date, celebrated your first Valentine’s Day and had to lie to someone to meet each other.
Any ‘love guru’ would tell you that the best way to win over your girl is to keep surprising her. The moment you see those widened eyes full of joy, you know only good things are in store for you. The surprises, however, do not have to be lavish or extravagant. As goes the cliché, it’s the little things that count. So, read on to know 10 ways to surprise her:
1. Bang! Show-up at her Workplace
That’s a surprise as good as any. The hectic proceedings of the day have started to get to her, and you landing out of nowhere will definitely cheer her up. Take her to lunch or go for a long drive.
2. A Prem Patra
Well, in this SMS age, a love letter will work in a way it didn’t even in the movies of the 50s. And you don’t have to wait for Valentine’s Day to pen down your feelings. Love letters heighten romance like nothing else does.
3. Trin Trin, I Love You
This counts among the most workable ways when it comes to catching her off-guard, however, if done monotonously and saying ‘I love you’ in those routine ceremonies you exchange every day, the best it would do is not induce a yawn in her.
4. Dedicate a Song to Her on Radio
Again, this is something that seems too outdated to do, and probably that is why it would work. If the song happens to be one of her favourites that she hasn’t heard in a long time, it might just become your love song.
5. Go Shopping
This should be a no-brainer. The word shopping has bewitching effects on women, to say the least. And unlike other days when you make faces hearing this word, actually sounding enthusiastic about it would sure cause some pleasant amazement.
6. Make Her Breakfast in Bed
What better start to her day than you cooking her breakfast and bringing it to her in bed. Some flowers accompanying the food tray will further the pleasant quotient in the surprise a few notches higher.
Yes, they do come as a surprise when she is not so used to them coming from you often. All it has to be is one line. A simple ‘I wish I’d met you sooner’ or ‘Do you know how much I love your smile?’ would go a long way in gladdening her heart. So just let the words out.
This works with anybody and everybody. Sit with her and recall the day when you had gone on your first date, celebrated your first Valentine’s Day and had to lie to someone to meet each other.
9. New Tricks in Bed
This one is for some naughty niceness. A surprise in bed may work as good as a surprise elsewhere. Role-playing, new positions or a different place to make out add spice and surprise.
10. Will You Marry Me?
This is for the ones who are still waiting to pop the question. Elation is what you are going to see on her face as soon as you utter these magical four words.
Keeping the romance alive is not so difficult when you keep the excitement on in a relationship. The element of surprise is essential to keep the flame lit always!
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