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Create your own luck | The Daily Vulnerable

Here is what I learned from my conversation with Peruzzi: Mehn, your life can change in an instant! And how did he get the kind of luck that he got…

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Your life can change in a second | The Daily Vulnerable

Your life can truly change in a second. Peruzzi had an emotional, very honest conversation with me about the second he realised his life had changed, thanks to Davido, how…

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Get positive energy around you | The Daily Vulnerable

Rita: I like positive energy around me. However, I am quite a very playful person especially if I am comfortable with you. When comfortable, I sometimes can be very goofy,…

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‘I have children that I take care of’ | The Daily Vulnerable

Rita Dominic: “I may not have birthed them but I have children that I take care of; I have people that I take care of.  “So obviously I’d love to…

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#ChudesBookClub: Lagos Noir | The Daily Vulnerable

Dolapo starred at him for several more seconds and crossed herself again. Then she quietly responded to him in Yoruba. “God is with me! I have no reason to fear…

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It is fine to feel things deeply, even if nobody else understands | The Daily Vulnerable

“We need art, we need artists, we need people who reflect ourselves back to us.  “We need people who tell us things that words might not be able to, things…

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“Time heals everything,” Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde | The Daily Vulnerable

“One of the greatest lessons that life has taught me is to remain calm and understand that everything will pass. It is always just a matter of time. “Time heals…

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How to spell Naija | The Daily Vulnerable

“When Titus recovered from the fever that hospitalized him all week, he returned to his Facebook page more grumpily than was his won’t. There was not a remark on his…

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Loss will beat you down if you let it | The Daily Vulnerable

The greatest lesson I took away from the deep conversation I had with Teni Makanaki was something profound that she said. “Loss will beat you down if you allow it”.…

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Remind yourself the things you’ve learnt | The Daily Vulnerable

Elvina: Tell us about Joy. Chude: Joy is very dear to my heart. I got my first experience of depression in law school. From 2007-2016, I have been in this cycle…

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Learn from the gazelle | The Daily Vulnerable

Elvina Ibru: If you were to be an animal based on your personality, which animal do you think you will be? Chude: I like the gazelle. I have always thought…

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Life is a tragedy if you make it a tragedy | The Daily Vulnerable

Elvina Ibru: There were so many things I learnt from interviewing Chude. One of them is this: life is a tragedy if you make it a tragedy. This is because…

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The conversation I didn’t know I needed | The Daily Vulnerable

My dear Aunty, Elvina Ibru said to me a few weeks after my interview with her: “You have been sharing the personal stories of others, including me, so now I…

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There’s a way to try better | The Daily Vulnerable

Trying is all that matters in this world. I have done interviews with thousands of people and I hear them say all the time that you should just show up.…

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Be grateful, even to your addictions | The Daily Vulnerable

At the Joy retreat that we do, I spoke with someone struggling with an addiction. He has recovered from it; he was so bitter that he was addicted to taking…

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Listen – even when it’s hard | The Daily Vulnerable

What I learnt from the interview with Chioma is something I am learning deeper and deeper over the past few years and months. It is to listen.  I usually found…

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Join Chioma Agwuegbo tomorrow on #WithChude | The Daily Vulnerable

For International Women’s Day, I invite my dear friend Chioma Agwuegbo to rip off the band-aid, ignore the pretty and sometimes patronising, and confront the work that still needs to…

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‘Broken from seeing this’ | The Daily Vulnerable

Chude: How was it like for you leaving your church because your pastor had been accused of something as serious as rape? Akah: People don't understand the magnitude of rape.…

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Communicate how you feel, no matter what | The Daily Vulnerable

Chude: Watching the video (you and your wife shared on YouTube) makes me want to ask this. Do you sometimes get scared of being that vulnerable? Akah: You know, vulnerability…

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Love is a decision to serve another human being | The Daily Vulnerable

What I learnt from my conversation with Akah Nnani - a conversation that was filled with so much depth, is that love is a decision to serve another human being…

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There is absolutely nothing you cannot survive | The Daily Vulnerable

What keeps you awake at night? What keeps you up? What keeps you desperate during the day? What makes you so scared you can't function? What makes you think you…

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Be comfortable in your own skin | The Daily Vulnerable

Chude: How does it feel for you when magic happens? For instance, when everything just comes together the way that you want it to, or even beyond your expectation? What…

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What growth means | The Daily Vulnerable

Chude: What does it mean for a person to grow, even if they are already confident and assured? Niniola: When you are confident, it means you are not blind to…

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Show up, do the work, get better | The Daily Vulnerable

Chude Jideonwo I once joked with one of our producers that I like interviews where the guest is not that forthcoming. The reason I like those interviews is that it…

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Are you really lonely? | The Daily Vulnerable

When some of my younger friends say they are lonely, I sometimes find it very amusing. “What’s the manifestation of your loneliness?” I often ask. “I’m home alone”, “I don’t…

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Feel your emotions all the way | The Daily Vulnerable

Korty: So, Eni said you shouldn’t cry in front of a man [if he breaks-up the relationship]. However, let me tell you something. Cry! If you don’t have the motivation,…

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Be a happy person before you step into a relationship | The Daily Vulnerable

One of the things I learnt from the conversation we had over the weekend is this: come into a relationship with your full self, as much as you can. It was a…

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Throuples, Ghosting, Situationships & More | The Daily Vulnerable

How far has the world changed when it comes to sex and relationships - and what’s the true effect on our mental and emotional lives? Every quarter on #WithChude, we…

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Exhume good energy and life | The Daily Vulnerable

Chude: In your mind and heart, where are you now, and what's next? Uche Sensei: Everything next is me; everything next is what I birth out. I have made the…

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You have to fight if you want to live | The Daily Vulnerable

Chude: Cancer is one of the things that people are frightened of. You've faced the worst fear of so many people in the world. How do you feel about that?…

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