by Eli Franklin
The good guys are the ones who have learned to hide their thoughts. These are the guys who will show you a good time and make sure you’re having fun, all the while disguising their lustful thoughts.
When you go on a first date with a new guy, you may be wondering what he’s thinking. This is the true account of what most guys think as the date progresses. News Flash: He’s mostly thinking about sex. He can’t help it. Guys are bred to think about sex every minute of every day. Some have learned to hide it and others aren’t so successful at hiding it. Regardless if he’s polite or a perv, here is what he is likely thinking from the time he picks you up on your first date until the time he drops you off at night.
The First Meet
He could be picking you up or he could be meeting you in a public restaurant. Regardless, the first time he lays eyes on you he’s thinking how great you look. He’s also thinking about how to describe how you look to his friends later on. As long as you dress nice, you’ll win in this department. Show a little skin and you win even more. Oh yeah, he’s also thinking about how you look naked under your clothes. You should be flattered. It’s a compliment.
During The Date
As you two are eating, dancing, walking along the boardwalk or whatever else you find yourself doing on your first date, he’s thinking what it must be like to kiss you. As you ask him questions, he’s trying to be on his best behavior. He gives you careful answers. He wants you to form the least amount of negative opinions about him so that you two can possibly have sex later.
As you two say goodnight after your first date, he’s carefully plotting his good night kiss. He’s looking for the exact time to plant one on you. If he seems distracted, it’s for good reason. The good night kiss on a first date is horribly nerve-wracking for a guy. As he kisses you, he’s thinking that hopefully he’ll get to experience much more of you later on.
This should give you some insight into what guys are really thinking on a first date. The good guys are the ones who have learned to hide their thoughts. These are the guys who will show you a good time and make sure you’re having fun, all the while disguising their lustful thoughts. The good guys know that, even though they may be thinking of sex the entire time while on a first date, it is best to hide the sex until the time is right. Find those types of guys and you’ll be more likely to find the whole package.
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