by Sreejan Guha Niyogi
Firstly you need to have a lot of patience. Patience is the key to success and it plays the most important role in getting back your boyfriend. You should not rush into the process. If you have broken your contact with him then start reconnecting it slowly and steadily. If you spot him anywhere say hello, smile and wave at him. Try looking him into his eyes so that he understands that you are totally focused towards him while talking. This is what you should start with.
2. Be Good with Small Talk
Try to start a short conversation with your ex at the time you meet him. Don’t start having a serious conversation about the break up.
Just a normal small talk and observe the way it shapes up. You should be mysterious about what is going on inside your mind. Leave the guy guessing. This attracts men. The more they will be confused the more they will try to talk to you. If you are in a party and your ex is also present there do not make the mistake of talking to him throughout the whole time. Treat him just as any other friend. He will think that he no longer has that much importance in your life. You can also flirt with him a little. In that way you can know what he wants.
3. Make Him want You Back
Show the glamorous side of you to your ex. Something he hasn’t seen before. Dress sexier, change your perfume and look beautiful and ravishing. Whenever you leave your house make sure that you are looking good because you night just meet him outside. Your attractiveness might make him think that the break up was a mistake and he might just come back for you and love you again.
4. Drop Some Compliments
Compliment your ex sometimes. But do not go overboard. Make sincere compliments. Complementing will make your ex feel better and wanted again. Remind him of the good times that you had spent with him in the past. Let him know how fond you are of those memories.
5. Don’t be Needy
Do not beg or appear to be needy in front of him. Let him come after you. The process will take time but if you follow my instructions carefully and sincerely you will surely get him back. We hope that we have been able to tell you how to get him back.
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