by Jenny Rogers
When a woman begins caressing your hand, your shoulders or even the sides of your face, she is trying to tell you she wants to touch you in more intimate ways.
Non-verbal communication is much more effective than anything anyone can actually say to you. The problem most men have is the inability to read and understand the lost art of non-verbal communication. Women, when attracted to you, will emit signs of physical attraction, sometimes without even realizing they are doing so. You, my friend, must pay attention closely if you want to capitalize.
1. Eye Contact
Eye contact is extremely personal. The eyes tell all, and if you are lucky enough to grab her gaze and hold it for a prolonged period of time, she is definitely interested in you.
2. A Smile
When a woman smiles at you she is giving you an open invitation to come talk to her. This smile is her way of telling you, “I want to get to know you better. Come over to me.” Do not hesitate.
3. Watch Her Lips
One major physical sign of attraction from a woman is licking or a slight biting of her lips. This is a subtle sign of desire–do not ignore it. During intimacy the lips play an important role. Imagine her lips kissing your neck softly, or other areas of your body for that matter. When she licks her lips while staring at you she is telling you she is thinking these thoughts.
4. Look at Her Legs
While she is looking at you, you need to keep an eyes on her legs. Is she crossing them and uncrossing them while adjusting her skirt? Remember, between her legs is her groin. This is definitely a physical sign of attraction from her to you.
5. Sitting Close to You
If a woman moves closer to you, leans into you and begins whispering her thoughts into your ear, you know she has more than friendship on her mind. She wants to take things to the next level–a physical level. Mirror her actions if you want to keep her attention on you.
When a woman begins caressing your hand, your shoulders or even the sides of your face, she is trying to tell you she wants to touch you in more intimate ways. She may even begin touching herself. If she begins touching her own neck or arm in a provacative manner, she is attempting to get it through your head that she wants you to touch her intimately.
7. Playing With Her Hair
Women use their hair as a way of seduction. She may throw it around, twirl it or fondle it. This are all ways of telling you that she is completely into you and wants to take it to a much deeper, physical level. Do not let her get away. Take a bite out of crime.
8. She Talks Sexually
There is no greater sign of physical attraction from a woman than when she begins talking about what turns her on sexually. This is a defining moment for you, and if you ignore *this* sign, all hope is lost.
Reading signs of physical attraction from a woman is not as difficult as you think. Women are predictable, and the signs they emit are basically the same. If you receive at least four of five of the above, you know she wants you.
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