‘He holds your hand’: 7 sweet things guys do for us (girls) on the sly

by Modern Man

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It’s not that he doesn’t want to hold your hand or kiss you—he’s just mortified that anyone would think he’s whipped.

1. HE GETS SWEATY

What’s the temperature at your place right now? It’s at least 5 degrees warmer than your guy would like it to be, but he suffers in silence.
2. HE UPGRADES YOUR ITUNES

He probably barely thinks twice about it. But if he sees a way to improve the way your computer, phone, tablet, or anything else performs, he’ll do it.
3. HE TAKES HEAT FROM HIS FRIENDS

Guys mercilessly make fun of each other. So basically, any time he does anything you want to do—shops at Bed, Bath & Beyond, visits your folks, goes out for a romantic dinner—you can bet his friends made him pay for it later.
4. HE LETS YOU GUSH OVER GOSLING

When you talk about how hot, say, Ryan Gosling is, the caveman part of your guy’s brain is activated and his first reaction is to want to kill the dude. Instead, your guy probably just rolls his eyes and blows it off.
5. HE TEXTS YOU

You probably think it’s a no-brainer to text, IM, or email with your guy during the day when you’re both at work. But chances are, he’s only doing this because he knows you want to. He’d be fine with catching up that night.
6. HE HELPS WITH SET-UPS

Playing matchmaker with you is the last thing your man wants to do. It’s awkward and if it doesn’t work out, it’s really awkward. But if he seems supportive of you setting up his buddies with your buddies, he’s only doing it for one reason—because he’s a nice guy.
7. HE HOLDS YOUR HAND

Guys are iffy on PDA. Sometimes they crave it and other times (read: When his friends are around) they don’t. It’s not that he doesn’t want to hold your hand or kiss you—he’s just mortified that anyone would think he’s whipped.
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