Love is magical, Michael Jackson sang. But guess what isn’t all chocolates and flowers: heartbreak, that’s what- particularly when there are curveballs along the journey. That’s why one of the popular words around is “closure”, meaning I need to know why you broke up with me. Popular TV host and relationship guru, Steve Harvey, says closure is something women want, but do not need. It happened, move on.
That hasn’t stopped countless women, including Andrinah, from seeking answers to a broken heart.
See below:
How I dated a hobo/homeless guy and I didn't know ? 7 years ago. Thread
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
I've just graduated and that current year was the 1st year of my 1st job at one of the biggest company in South Africa pic.twitter.com/qwbxU9znaF
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
So best believe I earned enough money that my parents stopped sending me money pic.twitter.com/eaeXGdAWNg
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
I lived in one the nicest flats in PTA CBD ?
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
I shopped every weekend guys, for occasions and just coz I could sometimes, enjoying my money like that. pic.twitter.com/5KSzWJLs9D
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
So, one Saturday afternoon, I was going to buy some fast food for myself, coz I didn't wanna cook,
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
There was a club next to where I lived, so that day it was packed than usual.
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
As I pass,I got noticed by this young guy looking guy, yooOo ?he was so hot n I was so hot too, so u can imagine, we are both flaming hot ? pic.twitter.com/LScrAxhLL9
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
He asked for my number and I gave him my number, he told me his name and I told him mine
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
I was so excited, I can't remember if I went to buy food still ???
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
So vele, ke taba, se siya jola manje, pic.twitter.com/Q7YryMVHYU
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Speak English!!!!
— KOD (@officialA_cube) September 9, 2017
I meant then we were officially dating
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Speak English!!!!
— KOD (@officialA_cube) September 9, 2017
Ok, so I had a room mate who would go home every weekend and sometimes she's hardly home coz she was a busy professional lady
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
So brother would come over my place and spend time together and do the things that made the things not to be do ???? pic.twitter.com/H1Eq8x76sV
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Them pots ?
— The Creative (@Qrypton) September 9, 2017
He slept over the whole weekend and left Monday morning, so i actually woke him up and ran a bath 4him while i prepare skhaftini for him❤️
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
That time I'm so in love with Him
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
The only thing I knew about him is that he has one sibling, a young sister and they live ko Soweto
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
And his mom is a single mom so, it's only the 3 of three of them.
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
So we all done it's time to go to work he takes skhaftini and I take mine then off we go separate ways
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Ok suddenly he doesn't have a phone anymore, which means he can call me and I can't pic.twitter.com/PpuiS928s4
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Lol , he lost his phone??
— peanut (@rollinemp) September 9, 2017
I had no idea
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Ok that's still fine with me, I don't know what he said about the whole situation with the phone, I wasn't ok about it but what hell
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Now the following weekend, my roommate comes back on Sunday afternoon, so there comes the problem pic.twitter.com/9DwjCDMOHf
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
So I told him my roommate is around and I can't have him around coz my roommate was an older lady who I respected so much pic.twitter.com/QziIFJnRzc
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
He said ok that's fine, until it was then dark, around 8, now I need to go back to my place and prepare for work tomorrow
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Heban guy, starts begging me not to go, but I don't understand why, but eventually he starts crying pic.twitter.com/ydZR8CJOBc
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Heban this guy.. Cried? pic.twitter.com/2EdfbNeqwJ
— T.N.T. (@Theri_Tee28) September 9, 2017
It was tough, he was tired
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Bathong, lena!!!! Guy tells me he's homeless, he has no where to go or sleep or do anything pic.twitter.com/JvmOtGG6ti
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Heban this is serious, he sits me down by the stair ways, tells me the whole story, which even today I find it difficult to believe pic.twitter.com/ghFUankSTG
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Was about to ask where he sleeps during the week
— Nqobile Mahlangu (@Nqob_Star) September 9, 2017
The streets or friends
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Ahhhh!!!! pic.twitter.com/golSnsJC66
— S K A T L E (@Sizwe_Mosia) September 10, 2017
I know ?
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 10, 2017
Guy tells me, he used to live here in PTA, with a girlfriend and he used to have a good job in Some famous computer shop, then…
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Girlfriend a pops some tender which her mom helped her to get in Mpumalanga, so girl convinced him to move to MP to her mom's house
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Hao guy was convinced coz there was money to be made, he then sold everything here in PTA then moved to MP pic.twitter.com/UIf9vUDvqM
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Ok then they lived there for 3 months, now girl's mom got tired of living with U'khonyana in her house with him not bringing anything in
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
The mother kicked him out and the girl wasn't Defending him at all ??????
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Bet after they chowed all his money pic.twitter.com/87FpDQIPa7
— Mamriva (@Siwebala) September 10, 2017
Exactly
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 10, 2017
So all along he was crashing at some of his friends' places and you know people get tired eventually pic.twitter.com/j3s3ndP7bj
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Where is home? We have large families, relatives ke family mo rena hau
— Nqobile Mahlangu (@Nqob_Star) September 9, 2017
Hes from Soweto
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
The girl should have given him R50 back to Soweto but the knacks was still sweet..or she still thinking about it
— Mr Olatunji Tomilola Buzillion (@Buzillion) September 9, 2017
It could be he was embarrassed to go back home with nothing
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
And he ended up living in the streets, guys he had no toothbrush I bought it for him pic.twitter.com/Bo66BTDmZ3
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
But at least he was hot yabo pic.twitter.com/q7IcUoJfXF
— Ntu (@MacNtuthu) September 9, 2017
So guys it was time to go to my place, I couldn't let him in, my roommate situation so I left him by the door ? pic.twitter.com/ThLfZlGsAM
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Ahaaawww guys pic.twitter.com/UMJTCDvSbf
— Malume NEX (@NEEXXUUS) September 9, 2017
I slept with a broken heart pic.twitter.com/t5mjwc2Dqc
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
He also told me he doesn't even work, he told me the truth, that time im thinking where in my tupperware pic.twitter.com/c2YMHTdyR8
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
But anyway, I went to work the following day, I spoke to my friend colleague and explained the whole story, so she was also touched
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
So guys I loved this guy some much I had decided to move out of where I lived and find a place where we can live together pic.twitter.com/sTyOhFziwn
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
I promise you, my mind and heart was made up
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
I asked for advices, so I told him I'm gonna look for a place so we can move in together while u try to stand on your feet again
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Guys he refused, I guess he felt less of A man. pic.twitter.com/652jghflNK
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Then he started touring the streets?, coz he had stopped calling and I was getting worried ?
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
He would randomly call me and I would beg for him to come back where ever he is pic.twitter.com/s6WC9F5kco
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Poor thang…you were still in love weren't you pic.twitter.com/cFHnboOyZB
— Ntu (@MacNtuthu) September 9, 2017
Yes ?
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
He said he will come back but he never did. Even today guys, Mongezi McDonald from Soweto never came back to me guys, I need closure pic.twitter.com/0Z6r5LPdPU
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Your Tupperware, u need closure about it too. At least know it survived the streets
— Siboniso (@LikhwaGoje) September 9, 2017
U feel me ?????
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
Guys he used to work at Incredible Connections when he left to MP
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
What if he fixed his life, is now RAF and comes back for you on some great gatsby ish?
— You (@PhoenixMkhwanaZ) September 9, 2017
lol I can't rebuild it's done it's done
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
If he had not left, you wouldn't have met your husband! Yaz' this thing called life is weird sometimes. Hope he's okay though
— Mis Thato (@Thato_Chidi) September 9, 2017
Ya and I guess things happen for a reason you know
— Andrinah (@Andrinah47) September 9, 2017
After this thread am officially a hot street guy around pta ke kopa thuso hle… pic.twitter.com/I1wJYLbbv0
— Naphtally phasha (@Notlo6) September 9, 2017
Wow.
Reformed social media monitoring spirit
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