Why married couples must use ‘missionary’ sex position ONLY – Pastor explains

by Anike Jacobs

Olugbenga-Oladejo

A UK-based Nigerian pastor Pastor Olugbenga Oladejo has warned married couples against unholy sexual acts in a viral video which shows the immoral positions like spice it up, doggie style, cowboy  or cowgirl.

He also warns against “self service” of your partner. Err, that means you shouldn’t use fingers to stimulate yourself to orgasm. “It is self-service done on you by your partner rather than yourself,” he said.

Read below:

Missionary as the Only Holy Position

Missionaries of old who taught their converts about true holiness would teach them that in the marriage bed, face to face with the husband on top is the only position that God has sanctioned. That is a landmarker or boundary stone that was laid by people before this evil generation was born that you and I who live today are a part of. That was a boundary stone. We have moved that stone, so we could try new things to fulfill our lusts.

The punishment for married couples who practice mouth action (We are not sure if this includes kissing) is that they will be put to death.

He even quoted a scripture to back this up: “Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.” (Col 3:5, NIV).

“It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God.” (1 Thes 4:3-5, NIV).

“Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.” (1 Tim 2:22, KJV)

About simulating your partner with fingers, he said;

Touching your wife lovingly is not a sin, but it becomes a sin when she feels like you are self-servicing her. Our hands are not meant for such an act. If your wife touches you such that you release without penetration, that is a great sin, so we need to be careful…I want to be very clear that when I refer to ‘touching your wife lovingly,’ it is not self-servicing her for arousal. I do not say a man should do that. The Lord told me He detests all forms of self-service.

We’d really like to hear what you’ve got to say about this – let’s have it on the comments section.

Comments (12)

  1. As long as man and woman do it facing each other, I don’t think it is a problem. The only problem is when they do it like animals. Men are not animals

  2. SEXUAL POSITION: MY SCRIPTURAL VIEW.
    (Response to Nigerian UK Pastor)
    In reference to a recent Video published by a Nigeria UK Pastor, condemning different sexual position apart from “Missionary” as shown to him in Hell, I have watched, listened and took some time to revisit and meditate on the scripture as it relates to sexual position in marriage.
    1. What is God purpose for sex in marriage?
    2. What sex position God approve or condemn?
    1. Purpose of Sex.
    a. Procreation. Gen 1.28
    b. Pleasure. 1cor 7.3-5
    c. Purity.1cor 7.2
    d. Physical intimacy tool. Gen 26.8
    2. Sex Position God Approve / Disapprove.
    From the Scripture, there is no specific sex position recorded for couples that God commanded, but sufficient warnings against marital infidelity. Therefore, if God created sex to be enjoyed by couples, why should a man imagine another law restraining himself/ herself from enjoying God’s gift?
    Let’s imagine this, a newly wedded couple, whom before their wedding were virgins or Born Again who have not been influenced with porn video, will surely exploit all styles that come their way. Sometimes Sex can be spontaneous, and this arises due to domestic posture of the wife, bedding, careless sitting, and sex appealing standing/ walking, all these will lead to different sex position.
    It is important to note that the position/location of Female organ suggest different positions, rear or front entry are easily exploitable, this shows God may have consider this at creation.
    In Scripture, sex is being refer to as food, 1cor 6.13, Prov 30.20, a man can use different style to eat his plate of rice, some use fork, spoon, knife, even hand, none of these style is a crime, but it is, if the source of the food is through stealing, likewise, it is not a sin to eat/ sleep with one’s wife with different style but it is a crime if it is with another man’s wife or daughter.
    If different sex position is enough to send Christian to hell, God could have mentioned it in the scripture, because HE took time to explain various sex we must not have. Lev 18:20-25, Lev 20:10-21. It is not difficult for God to add “thou shall not sleep with your wife with different style” Christ, in the New Testament was asked various questions about marriage and He gave the most insight revelation about it, Two shall become One, He says. No law was given to these 2=1 on how sex (token of their bond) should be performed.
    However, various style I believe is permitted by God, but Anal sex is unnatural, awkward and sodomy, there is no natural relationship between anus and penis, I gave this judgment because, the style is peculiar to homosexuality/sodomy.
    I submit that this idea of bringing new things through revelation that is not in the Bible it is Satan’s effort to bring our tender heart into bondage, make us feel condemn when we are pure before God and put many homes into problem. Getting/ missing heaven is very clear in the Scripture , Gal 5.19-21 listed the works of the flesh that will make a man to go to hell,(none mention “wrong” sex position) Gal 5.22-26 listed the fruit of the spirit that guarantees heaven. Therefore this revelation should be discarded and rubbished since it has no basis from the Scripture.
    Ola Steve.

  3. This guy claims to have heard this from the Lord, he should remember what the bible says in 1John 4:1

    1. D man is obviously crazy. i just pity the wife. shuuuuu! some serious madness.

  4. I think God’s cooler than this Brother.

  5. I wonder how his marriage is going. Sorry wifey! Craze nor dey show for face. The pot has cracked.

  6. This is arrant nonsense! Mtcheeeeew!

  7. His wife is probably the most sexually frustrated woman in the world. Sneaks a cucumber from the fridge when no one is looking, maybe.

  8. He’s crazier than most Pastors.

  9. Maybe he and his wife never wash their genitals. That would explain a lot.

  10. Here’s what I think: if they’re not cheating on each other,not filing for divorce,still have their spiritual lives in check & honor their marriage vows then they’re good. Pastors need to stay away from couple’s Sex lives make God nor go punish person.

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