by Meghna Mukherjee

When most women flirt for the first time, they get all worked up about it. This in turn makes them look ridiculously hyper. Relax and be calm. Flirting is meant to be fun. Try and keep it like that.

The art of flirting is a tricky one, and it’s not easy to always know what the flirting mistakes are. Though for some women it is a lethal weapon, for most others it is complicated and difficult

Remember your limits 

One of the most important and crucial things about flirting is that you make sure that you know your limits. Most social flirting happens at a bar or a party and that means you will be drinking. Flirting should be fun and taken and done lightly. Remember to not go overboard with an excess of alcohol in your system.

Don’t be a tease 
Make sure you don’t fall head over heels for someone while flirting. Keep it light and subtle. Do not indulge in touching or teasing. If you throw yourself at him or are overtly sexual, it could give him wrong ideas about what you want.

Don’t play too hard to get 
Remember that if you play too hard to get, it could ruin all the fun. No one likes to interact with someone who thinks no end of herself. It could make you look snooty. Try and be as normal as possible with him.

Relax 
When most women flirt for the first time, they get all worked up about it. This in turn makes them look ridiculously hyper. Relax and be calm. Flirting is meant to be fun. Try and keep it like that.

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