by Meghna Mukhergee
Obsession is simply unhealthy. Being obsessed with your significant other can be harmful in many ways than one. Further it does not go down too well with your beloved as well.
You keep praising him
One of the first signs for you to watch out for is that you just keep talking about him or keep praising him all the time. While it is okay to complement your boyfriend, going overboard with the praises can actually make him feel uneasy and may even lead to a distance between the two of you.
You feel agitated with him talking to others
Well you might love him a lot, but if you constantly get the jitters when he is speaking to another female, you are definitely getting obsessed with him. There is no need to feel insecure if you find your boyfriend chatting with another girl if you love him and trust him completely. However, if you feel that the conversation between him and the other girl is not normal, approach your boyfriend directly and ask him what’s on his head.
Constantly brood whether you will break up
This is definitely not a good sign. If you are constantly anxious about breaking up with him, you need to rethink about your relationship. Many a times, people just go overboard with their thoughts about breaking up and this eventually leads to an end. The point of being in a relationship is to feel secure and loved; and if that’s not what you are getting from your relationship, you need to move on.
You don’t give him enough space
Another aspect to consider is that are you giving him enough time and space? You love him a lot but that does not mean that he has to spend all the time with you. A little time off from one another makes your relationship special and you also feel like spending time with your loved one then. Stop clinging too much, else he might feel irritated with you and also break up with you eventually.
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