Jada Pinkett Smith took to Facebook to address the deep rooted brainwashed nature of men and women, when it comes to relationships. Pinkett Smith who has never been one to mince words, told her readers about the warped image of love that most women and men try to live up to. Both men and women are finding themselves catering to society’s commercialized ideal of what it means to love a man or a woman and the things and features you have to possess in order to do so. Let’s call it the all beauty and no brains syndrome.

She says, “How is man to recognize his full self, his full power through the eye’s of an incomplete woman? The woman who has been stripped of Goddess recognition and diminished to a big a**and full breast for physical comfort only. The woman who has been silenced so she may forget her spiritual essence because her words stir too much thought outside of the pleasure space. The woman who has been diminished to covering all that rots inside of her with weaves and red bottom shoes.” 

She also addresses the fact that men are stretching to maintain a certain status to be recognized by women, allowing themselves to be used.

She says that, “even men would render themselves empty and longing for meaning, depth and connection. There is a deep sadness when I witness a man that can’t recognize the emptiness he feels when he objectifies himself as a bank and truly believes he can buy love with things and status. It is painful to witness the betrayal when a woman takes him up on that offer. He doesn’t recognize that the create of a half woman has contributed to his repressed anger and frustration of feeling he is not enough. He then may love no woman or keep many half women as his prize.”

– Naturally Moi