I really want to fall in love again – Talking Drummer, Ara

by Damilola Jagun

 

Nigeria’s leading female ‘Talking Drummer, Ara, really wants to get married, and she doesn’t mind if her future husband is way younger than her.

In a recent sitdown with Punch, Ara, whose marriage hit the rocks in 2013 after being wedded for 2 years, says she desperately wants to fall in love again.

She said, “When I meet the right person and fall in love, I will consider marriage. I really want to fall in love again. I don’t believe in marriage just for its sake. If a younger guy comes up to me, I don’t mind dating the person. I don’t mind marrying somebody who I am older than. I have spoken to a couple of people and they don’t see anything wrong with it. If the person has a mature mind and is committed, then it is not a big deal.”

The drummer also revealed that she can be a very ‘submissive wife’, reffering to her ex-husband, whom she says can testify to her yielding persona, despite her ‘bread-winner status while they were married.

“I am not that kind of person. I am the most submissive wife. I am ‘mumu’ for love. You can ask my ex, he can tell you. There was never a day I didn’t ask him what I should cook even though I was the breadwinner. I would always ask him what he wanted. And whatever he said, if we didn’t have it, I would jump on an okada and enter the market to go and buy the stuff. I am a hopeless lover,” she added.

Comments (11)

  1. Humility indeed. Going by the number of times she mentioned being the bread winner, she no doubt made sure the man never forgot the fact. Humility is an attitude. It’s not in cooking. The way to a man’s heart is not the stomach. Don’t be deceived.

  2. Humility indeed. Going by the number of times she mentioned she being the bread winner in the article, she must have ensured the guy never forgot the the fact. Any surprise they’ve parted ways. Humility is an attitude. It’s not in cooking. The stomach is not the way to a man’s heart. Don’t be deceived.

  3. If she mean business let her contact this number or drop her own contact 07052593064

  4. I am a yoruba man from ondo state, I don’t. Know but I know I am interested in dis african queen, if she will consider me nio am 33yrs of age

  5. Please find out from her if she would want to consider a pastor. I am interested. Please email me.

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