by Wendy Kay
It’s very sexy when a woman changes her appearance periodically, or for different occasions. First, it shows that she cares and takes pride in her appearance.
1. Know/exude confidence:
You’ve already figured out that your partner, or potential partners, are simply attracted to the woman’s body. Your body doesn’t have to be “model-perfect” to be attractive; it just is. Women are born into the physiques that arouse by nature. You just got it, so own it! You’re attractive to those who you want attention from (and even many, many more that you may not). Have confidence in this fact. Anything conveyed to the contrary, is merely said in an attempt to have you feel a certain way for a particular motive — don’t believe it! Confidence itself is very sexy.
2. Jazz it up a bit:
Get a few new styles of clothes and accessories, then head to the tailor to get those off-the-rack clothes fitted correctly. Take along some of the clothes you already have in the closet, too. It’s amazing what a little tailoring will do for your look. Shop around to find someone reasonably priced. And don’t be afraid to fit the form you’ve got, and go for a high hemline or low-cut short once in a while (but not both at the same time).
3. Minimize the granny-panties!
These panties were designed to hide the panty lines when we wear dresses and professional/dress slacks… but so does a nicely fitted thong! And guess which one your partner is going to prefer when you both undress together? Remember, no matter how big (or small) your butt is, and no matter what you think of it, your partner is going to find it a pretty big turn-on. (I really feel there should have been a class on this in high school, don’t you?!)
4. A new you with every do:
Colour your hair, cut it, change around the style every once in a while. It’s very sexy when a woman changes her appearance periodically, or for different occasions. First, it shows that she cares and takes pride in her appearance. It also caters to the confidence in a couple ways: it feels great when all the compliments come in. It also shows that you know you have something good to work with, and a reason for doing it. Knowing “you got it” tells others you got it (fake it ’til you make it, if you have to).
5. Wake up the face:
A little liner goes a long way. If you don’t have the time, or desire, to make up your whole face to accentuate your features or minimize imperfections, who cares?! But if you want just a little pop, you can put some liner around your eyelids, maybe some powder and a bit of glimmer or moisture on your lips. Don’t get it wrong, all natural is sexy too — it’s the caring for yourself, how you look and feel, that’s amazingly sexy outwardly. And inside, it feels great too.
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