by Mayowa Ogundele
Accepting to marry someone is the highest level of trust that can be invested in another human being.
For me, that’s saying… all my dreams and hopes and ambitions and passions and everrrrrything I aspire to in life, will be subjected to my relationship with you.
Because whether you like it or not, who you are tied to determines how fast you run or if you can run at all.
Saying “I Do” means I’m putting my destiny (in a way) in your trust…. It means i’m telling you to not pull me down but help me up. It means I’m telling you to make me better… better than I have tried to be.
It means I’m saying love me… groom me. nurture me… NOT because I can’t do it myself (or try to) but because I trust you to be the steady shoulders upon which I reach out for the stars and all that lies beyond them.
Mayowa Goundele blogs from www.ohluwamayowa.wordpress.com