“There is nothing you can tell me to convince me, not to cheat on my cheating boyfriend. I’m going to find me a nice young willing guy to get even with him.”
“This is the second relationship that I’m having such an experience, before it happens a third time, I’m going to get myself a bit of the action, if for nothing, but to know what it feels like to cheat on someone I claim to love.”
That was Lara ranting and raging, after she walked in on her boyfriend making love to another lady, in his apartment. This was a guy that was supposed to be out of town, and had even given her his keys, should she ever needed to drop by the house and pick up one of her numerous personal items that had found a home in his apartment.
Meanwhile, he had the spare key, and banked on the fact that Lara never came to his house while he was not around. But this particular weekend, she had needed to pick up a text book she needed for her class that morning, and headed to his apartment, where she met with one of the biggest shocks of her life.
After opening the outer door, she walked through; her mind on getting the textbook that was on the bed side table. She absentmindedly opened the bedroom door, and at the same time, checked on a message that had just come in. So she stood on the threshold of the bedroom with her head bowed, and one hand on the door handle with the other working the phone. Upon raising her head, she saw her dear boyfriend pumping away on a girl she had never seen. They were both caught on the edge of a powerful orgasm, and did not realise they were no longer the only occupiers of the room.
However, when everything started to make sense again, the sexathoners were shocked to see Lara calmly filming them on her phone. Her boyfriend jumped out of the bed and rushed towards her, stammering all sorts of excuses. He had been caught in the act, with video evidence. What really was there to say?
On the other hand, the other woman had no problem, voicing her objections to having a third party in her boudoir. She asked who Lara was, and when she got no answer had actually asked her to leave…clearly feeling like the queen.
Lara shook her head, picked up the text book she came for, and some of her other important things, and turned around to leave, with her boyfriend hot on heels…begging! How he intended to explain away is infidelity, after being caught in the act, is anybody’s guess. But, he tried…and Lara shut him out.
While she had not said a word to her boyfriend, she was shaken. It took everything in her to get herself home, house before breaking apart. She wailed, sobbed, and eventually cleaned her face, whilst still seething on the outside, as she planned her revenge strategy.
Well, this time around, she was done with being the victim. She was done with being the one always being apologized to. She wanted to be the one to say sorry. She wanted to taste the forbidden.
There was even more at stake. it was not just about seeking rebound sex…it was now a matter of not going back on her word. The only time they had talked about infidelity, she had stated categorically that if it ever happened from him, she would most surely get even! She didn’t want it to an empty bluff.
So, when it happened, she was bent on fulfilling her promise. And she had the perfect guy lined up. Her ex. He had been hanging around her lately…begging her to come back to him. Now was the time to throw him bait, and see if he would swallow.
After, the pity party was over, Lara called up her ex. Eagerly, he came over to her house to take her out. They went out, and Lara really had a nice time…but that was not what she was after. When the evening was over, she offered to follow him to his place, to his shocked delight.
He agreed, and Lara thought she was on track. According to her “We got to his place, I started making my moves…I was all over him, until he held my hands and told me to stop. Really??? I didn’t get that memo.
Instead, he told me that he had noticed that I was trying to cover up some pain, that he would rather talk with me than have sex. You can bet that now, I was really perplexed. My ex, who wanted sex all the time, now suddenly did not. I thought something must be wrong with me. My boyfriend cheated on me; the ex, whom I wanted to use for revenge, had rejected my advances…something must be definitely wrong with me.
And in that moment, I lashed out at him, asking him when he had suddenly developed a conscience, and now preferred talking over making love. That was when he told me, he had changed and was no longer sex crazy. Again, really?
Hmm! Talking was out of it, how could I tell this man, who had also cheated on me by the way, that the guy whom I left him for had also cheated on me. Definitely, that was not going to happen.
Well, my ex has said no, but that does not mean I’m going to give up. I’m still going to find me a handsome young man to make love to. All I want is a one night stand sex; so that I too can know what emotionless sex feels like!
At least, for the sake of experience, I want to stand in the shoes of a cheat and know what it feels like to eat the forbidden fruit, knowing that I’m hurting someone by my actions…and yet still do it. I want to know how easy it was for them to blank out any thoughts of me their heads, and get it on with another lady. I want to feel what they felt.
Okay, I know some of you would have reservations about what I plan to do…and would want me to cease and desist. Well, I will not. If you want to help me, get me a guy and fast too.”
Sometimes, for women who feel this way, the only thing to appease them would be to actually proceed with their plans. Unfortunately, in most cases, after the deed, these women gain nothing but regret and self loathing, to add to the feelings of betrayal they are already nursing. And rather than feel ‘punished’, their boyfriends usually end up walking away, making it a lose-lose situation.
The best solution to a cheating partner? Kick him to the curb! Nothing is worth subjecting yourself to meaningless sex, as a means of punishment.
There are, truly, several other fish in the sea!
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