by Carrie Seim

Use inappropriate vocabulary words in sexy situations.

Women frequently ask me what men find sexy. Clearly, no size fits all when it comes to matters of the heart. But from my experience, it’s the little things we do that make men weak in the knees. (Unless you just booked a Victoria’s Secret campaign – that works, too.) So I asked guy friends, boyfriends, gay friends and strangers for the little things that turn them on big-time. Here are 30 of their best answers.

Guys think it’s sexy when you …

1. Wear a sundress on a hot, sticky day. Bras need not apply.

2. Quote Anchor Man, The Big Lebowski or The Usual Suspects.

3. Use interesting vocabulary words in intellectual conversations.

4. Use inappropriate vocabulary words in sexy situations.

5. Bake him something – even if you end up with batter in the toaster and cupcakes that tastes like Play-Doh.

6. Tell him the truth when he asks what you want for your birthday / Valentine’s / Fourth of July.

7. Buy him his favorite video game, ironic t-shirt or vintage album – just because.

8. Brush your lips across his neck.

9. Beg him to do his pirate voice – even if you’ve heard it 897 times.

10. Challenge them to a knock-knock-joke contest.

11. Race him to the car.

12. Order exotic dishes when you dine out bonus points if you can cook them).

13. Text him exactly what you’re going to do him later.

14. Text him exactly what you want him to do to you later.

15. Take your clothes off without apology.

16. Make a quick decision without weighing the potential pros and cons of where to eat brunch and extrapolating the impact over the next decade.

17. Make the bed in the morning.

18. Order an ice cream cone – for two.

19. Forget to wear underwear.

20. Leave a funny drawing on his bathroom mirror.

21. Encourage him to go out with the guys and have a good time – then mention what you’ll be wearing when he gets back.

22. Buy him a drink.

23. Don’t feel the need to compare yourself (negatively) to every other woman who crosses your path.

24. Politely call his parents Mr. and Mrs. until they suggest otherwise.

25. Take the initiative and make the dinner  yourself.

26. Be a rabid fan of something – even if it’s pole vault or the National Spelling Bee.

27. Be his biggest fan.

28. Ask exactly what you can do to help when he’s a jam.

29. Let him help you when you can’t open the jam jar.

30. Keep it real, keep it kind and keep it sexy.

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