Move on: 5 sure ways to know he’s not THE ONE

by The Ree Guide If you find yourself defending reasons why you’re with your man, he’s probably not the one for you. Relationships can be very draining, especially if you’re in a relationship with the wrong person. A number of women hope to find a man that will not only be a great husband,... Read More

infidelity, Love, relationship, tips, woman

April 23, 2013

Myne Whitman: 15 things I love about my Nigerian husband (Y! Superblogger)

I socialized with a lot of non-Nigerians and actually dated outside the Nationality, and even the race for a while… I had different measures for each category of people I dated or seriously considered for a romantic, and possibly long term relationship. I didn’t set out to marry a Nigerian man. It was a preference,... Read More

husband, Love, Myne Whitman, nigeria, relationship, Y! Superblogger

April 23, 2013

10 red flags of a relationship that is “doomed”

by Healthy Black Woman He sleeps around when he’s drunk: He will blame it on the alcohol. Cheating is cheating, no matter how drunk he was. Have you noticed that your partner has been acting differently lately? Is he not as warm and kind as he used to be or more distant than he was... Read More

doomed, flags, RED, relationship

April 22, 2013

All you need to know about ‘going down’ in bed

from Healthy Black Woman Oral s-x can can be both great for the relationship or stressful. Making love and intimacy are still a taboo subject for some and even if not taboo, the conversations can be a little uncomfortable. Oral sex is still somewhat taboo as well, even though a recent study showed that 90%... Read More

oral, partner, relationship

April 17, 2013

Don’t be blindsided: 5 signs he’s cheating

If your husband begins to pay more attention to his physical appearance and is doing things like buying new clothes, wearing new more cologne, tanning, joining a gym or getting his teeth whitened – there’s a good chance it isn’t for you. Cheaters never prosper… and neither do their partners. That said, cheating is as... Read More

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April 16, 2013

8 steps to becoming a relationship expert on Twitter

by Tracy Clayton Something amazing is happening today. Your favorite musical icons from the 1990s are putting down the microphones and picking up the pens (or paying someone to do it for them) and writing books giving relationship advice aimed primarily at black women. The success of Steve Harvey’s Act Like a Lady, Think Like a... Read More

advice, books, culture, keith sweat, relationship, Relationship Expert, Rev Run, self help books, Steve Harvey, twitter adviser, twitter experts, Tyrese

April 14, 2013

Top 10 excuses you make to stay in a bad relationship

by Dani Miser What’s wrong with being single? You’re not alone (Hebrews 13:5). Christians, you are totally complete in Christ, lacking nothing Author Dani Miser shares 10 common excuses used to justify staying in a bad relationship and why none of them are good reasons. Excuse #1: I’d rather settle for him than be alone. What’s... Read More

bad, excuses, make, relationship

April 9, 2013

5 signs your new girlfriend has… ‘too much bedroom experience’

by DFTM It’s a great thing for women to protect themselves. We’re talking about the girls that know just a little too much about condoms and say things like… The discussion of past intimate partners can be a topic that is often avoided when starting a new relationship. Women who are open and free-spirited about... Read More

Condom, experience, Girlfriend, infidelity, Love, men, relationship

April 9, 2013

5 signs she’s just using you

From DFTM If the girl seldom returns your calls in a timely manner, always has a busy schedule and only calls when she wants something from you or needs a favor… Have you ever found yourself in a relationship situation where you’re constantly calling the girl, taking her out and being devoted, sweet and kind... Read More

cheating, Girl, infidelity, Love, relationship

April 9, 2013

Guys, please note: 5 skills that impress women

From DFTM It’s very impressive to a woman when you’re willing to get your hands dirty and can be relied upon to maintain a home and perform basic repairs. Women like a man who is confident in his abilities and can take care of himself (and them too if the need arises). They also appreciate... Read More

Love, men, relationship, women

April 8, 2013

A safer option, dildo styled: Introducing the future of the condom (LOOK)

by Amy Copperman …this new condom simulates the way bareback sex feels and is actually a safer option than traditional latex condoms. Our civilization has explored outer space. We have cars that drive themselves. We’ve created a world connected by computers. But despite the astonishing innovations of the last 100 years, the latex condom remains woefully... Read More

FDA, Origami Male Condom, relationship, sensation

April 3, 2013

15 strange facts about kissing

from Likes Kissing can definitely lead to emotional bonding, which is why men who seek shorter relationships are hesitant to stay in a woman’s bed after sex to cuddle. #15 Hormones abound Did you know that open-mouth kissing allows for the transfer of hormones from a man to a woman? Mucus membranes in the mouth... Read More

cuddle, facts, kissing, Love, relationship, rest

April 2, 2013

5 ways to spice up your relationship

by Rosemary Brennan For most of us our bedroom is just that: a room with a bed. But your love life is something that feeds off all of the senses and your bedroom should facilitate that sensual stimulation. We asked Dr. Kerner for a few fresh ideas about spicing up both long-term and new relationships... Read More

bedroom, relationship, spice, ways

March 26, 2013

5 tips for fighting fair in a relationship

By Kait Smith Words you should never say during an argument and other conflict advice for couples. When navigating the rough and rugged waters of a relationship, one of the trickiest places to steer your metaphorical love canoe through is a conflict. Yes, arguments happen and no, they aren’t always pretty. And, thanks to the differences in... Read More

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March 26, 2013

9 signs your boyfriend is lying to you

from Style Caster They tend to repeat questions before answering them, perhaps to give themselves time to concoct an answer. I can’t think of a better person to advise on detecting deception than someone who has trained detectives and intelligence officers from the FBI, the Department of Homeland Security and the Marines. Let’s be real chances are... Read More

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March 20, 2013

Adaobi Okwy: 10 signs you’re a sad lonely girl (Y! Superblogger)

Your friends dare not tell you about their new or on-going relationship because they’re scared that you’d either burst into tears, become moody and cranky or begin to avoid them all over again. Hold on ladies, if you’re wondering why you don’t get to hang out anymore with your girlfriends… especially as you used to,... Read More

Adaobi Okwy, depression, lonely, relationship, Sad, Y! Superblogger

March 18, 2013

Joshua Ademuwagun: Forgiveness – A door to a world of greater bliss (30 Days, 30 Voices)

Careful not to get into another relationship as a rebound, I took some time to carefully reflect and be the best of me. I forgave Yetunde, which is one of the best decisions I made. The day looked promising. Only three days ago, I had boasted of how beautiful I and Yetunde were doing. I... Read More

forgiveness, Joshua Ademuwagun, Mercy, relationship

March 17, 2013

“You are not alone” – 10 things every woman going through a break-up wants to hear

by Aunt Becky After being in a relationship for years, a divorce can really do a number on your psyche. Which is why a reminder that you’re not in it all by yourself can be exceptionally helpful. When someone is blindsided by a divorce (even if it’s a blessing in disguise) most of her friends... Read More

: breakups, divorce, emotion, Love, relationship, tips

March 16, 2013

Opinion: Premarital sex in a ‘civilised’ generation

by Matthew ‘Femi Adedoyin Young men or women who engage in premarital sex end up having extramarital relationships and this is a problem for our society. Our definition of moral concepts in recent times has indubitably resulted to high level of licentiousness, sexual anarchy, disruption of family life and a life bereft of hope and... Read More

Condom, counseling, FAMILY, Love, Matthew 'Femi Adedoyin, premarital sex, relationship, safe sex

March 15, 2013

#ABetterYou: What happens to you when you hurt others

From HealthyBlackWoman They also found that people who are ignored online, such as on Facebook, felt just the same as they would if it were person to person contact. People sometimes find themselves in a situation where they don’t quite fit in, and they are cast aside by others that do. It hurts that person’s... Read More

computer game, Cyberball, facebook, relationship, research

March 14, 2013

Is make-up sex dysfunctional?

From HealthyBlackWoman If you have true intimacy with a partner, and are truly committed to a long term relationship, you will find a way to compromise and come together without having the angry make-up session. Some couples don’t mind an intense fight. Why? Because they get to have the intense make up sex after. While... Read More

intimacy, relationship

March 9, 2013

You don’t say: “Everybody cannot be a ‘runs’ girl'” – Nollywood actress, Halima Abubakar

by Isi Esene Nollywood actreess, Halima Abubakar is a straight-talking lady who know what she wants in the industry. In this interview with the Punch Newspapers, she speaks about her foray into movie producing, her parents’ support for her movie career and her relationship. Read excerpts below: You released your first movie recently. What prompted... Read More

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March 7, 2013

#RealityCheck: Dating online? You’re not in a relationship, you are pen pals

The 21st Century has brought about wonderful changes in technology, but created a “hot mess” in terms of relationships. Unfortunately, I have seen an influx in the number of pseudo-relationships and a decrease in real relationships. One form of pseudo-relationship that has sprung into prominence is text-message relationships. These are relationships that the majority of the... Read More

pals, pen, relationship

February 27, 2013

The truth: Women want to talk about their problems… men just want more sex

Cynics will tell you that men are only interested in one thing. And, according to the counsellors at Relate, the cynics are right – even when a man’s relationship is on the rocks. While women seek help to talk about the couple’s problems, men’s ‘driving force’ is often how to get more sex. The Relate... Read More

problems, relationship, talk, women

February 27, 2013

Aderonke Adebanjo: Beauty, brains, but no beau

by Aderonke Adebanjo To all ladies out there – you got the beauty, the brains, but no beau, IT’S OK. Keep doing you. Take the advice that enriches your life experiences and wait patiently, trusting that at the right time, love will come knocking… Okay, so let’s pick up from where we left off. We... Read More

aderonke adebanjo, Beauty, friendly, Love, relationship

February 27, 2013

Why I am leaving Facebook

by Barrakam Facebook offers me nothing that I cannot get in a phone call, a video call, a postal letter, a paper greeting card, an email, a chat or a web page with photos on it. It seems to me it is a lazy person’s way to “keep in touch.” There are a number of... Read More

Barrackam, facebook, friends, job loss, knowledge, relationship, social media

February 9, 2013

Opinion: Rape is NEVER an accident

by Amanda Marcotte Rape is a deliberate, malicious act disguised as an “accident”, because that’s the disguise that works to let the rapist off the hook. With all attention being paid to rape culture lately—which is good!—I’m seeing a not-so-good consequence of it, which is a number of people, some well-intentioned, perpetuating the myth that... Read More

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February 3, 2013

Is your girlfriend just too jealous? 5 ways to tell

from DFTM She assumes that your attracted to everything in a skirt and attempt to limit your exposure to them because she is so afraid is she of losing you. So you’ve had a relationship for a long time with your girlfriend and you love her very much, but there’s a problem: she is a... Read More

Dating tips, jealousy, Love, relationship

February 2, 2013

Konnectors, the merchants of romance brings you ‘Together but apart’ on Valentines

by Isi Esene Many marriages are weak at its joints. Its becoming more like a business not a relationship as it is meant to be. The features below mirrors the lives of upwardly mobile professionals whose careers are paramount to them; who find it difficult creating that quality time needed to nurture a lasting relationship.... Read More

gift, Love, partnership, relationship, spouse, Valentine's

February 2, 2013

“My wife, Muma Gee, allows me to act nude roles” – Prince Eke, Nollywood actor

by Akan Ido Prince Eke is a popular Nollywood actor also known as Mr. Humility. The tall and handsome actor recently granted an interview speaking about his life, his marriage to popular music artiste, Muma Gee, his relationship with fans and the his acting career as it affects his marriage. Read excerpts of the Sun... Read More

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Move on: 5 sure ways to know he’s not THE ONE

Myne Whitman: 15 things I love about my Nigerian husband (Y! Superblogger)

10 red flags of a relationship that is “doomed”

All you need to know about ‘going down’ in bed

Don’t be blindsided: 5 signs he’s cheating

8 steps to becoming a relationship expert on Twitter

Top 10 excuses you make to stay in a bad relationship

5 signs your new girlfriend has… ‘too much bedroom experience’

5 signs she’s just using you

Guys, please note: 5 skills that impress women

A safer option, dildo styled: Introducing the future of the condom (LOOK)

15 strange facts about kissing

5 ways to spice up your relationship

5 tips for fighting fair in a relationship

9 signs your boyfriend is lying to you

Adaobi Okwy: 10 signs you’re a sad lonely girl (Y! Superblogger)

Joshua Ademuwagun: Forgiveness – A door to a world of greater bliss (30 Days, 30 Voices)

“You are not alone” – 10 things every woman going through a break-up wants to hear

Opinion: Premarital sex in a ‘civilised’ generation

#ABetterYou: What happens to you when you hurt others

Is make-up sex dysfunctional?

You don’t say: “Everybody cannot be a ‘runs’ girl'” – Nollywood actress, Halima Abubakar

#RealityCheck: Dating online? You’re not in a relationship, you are pen pals

The truth: Women want to talk about their problems… men just want more sex

Aderonke Adebanjo: Beauty, brains, but no beau

Why I am leaving Facebook

Opinion: Rape is NEVER an accident

Is your girlfriend just too jealous? 5 ways to tell

Konnectors, the merchants of romance brings you ‘Together but apart’ on Valentines

“My wife, Muma Gee, allows me to act nude roles” – Prince Eke, Nollywood actor

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