by Smitten Kitten
Little things you do in bed can make a big difference in building a meaningful bond in your relationship. Don’t be afraid to be a bit kinky.
Make your own move:
While the classic sex positions never fail, add your little twist to them or invent your own new moves in bed. You two will feel extra close to each other every time y’all try that move or position in bed as it will be your thing. Your sweet little secret, you know!
Climax at the same time:
It’s a great thing when your partner looks out for your needs first and helps you finish before him and vice-versa. But, getting an orgasm together is another high. It’s not very difficult to achieve this as long as you two are communicative. Next time you two are at it, ask him to hold up until you reach there. Give him a cue when you’re just about to come and boom!
Small actions:
Little things you do in bed can make a big difference in building a meaningful bond in your relationship. Don’t be afraid to be a bit kinky. You can hold his hands up with your hands while you passionately kiss him or dig your nail into him and pull him closer as he thrusts inside you.
Eye contact:
Don’t underestimate the power of an eye lock. There’s something really romantic about it. If you’re hooking up with someone you really like and want to take things further, look into his eyes while you’re at it. It will strike an instant connection.
Bring in the toys:
A lot of women are skeptical about trying new positions and prefer sticking to old ones as they are unable to orgasm with a new move. But, with the help of lube and vibrators you can easily achieve an orgasm and this will make you more experimental in bed.
Keep it simple:
Don’t try too hard when you get to the deed. Just follow your instincts and keep things simple as this will keep you more calm and relaxed and increase your chance of reaching an orgasm. If you’re relaxed, your partner will also feel at ease.
More foreplay:
Besides being awesome and helping you arouse, foreplay can be very intimate and all that kissing and touching makes you feel more connected with your partner.
Post-orgasm stroke:
After you have both reached orgasm, don’t roll over and go to sleep. Stroke him lightly all over his body as this will release oxytocin, a chemical that has the effect of being in love. Sweet!
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