by James Amuta Men cannot give other men good advice when it comes to how to deal with an overtly abusive woman – men will often resort to scornful dissociation from the victim. Seriously, I’m sick and tired of having to read stories of abusive spouses; of men battering women. Disgusting. Recently the ‘Blade Runner’.... Read More

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Opinion: When the Wife is the Man of the House…

By James Amuta “…if incomes were humans, his would be a 3feet tall dwarf in a circus, while Wemimo’s income would tower over his like a 6-foot-seven, 300-pound, point guard for the Lakers Basketball team– do the math.” Maybe if couples realized that marriage is a different ball game from dating, the mortality rate of... Read More

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February 13, 2012

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James Amuta talks X-rated: “Better a slut than a tease”

by James Amuta Better a Sl*t than a C**k Tease… C**k tease This is a derisive sexual slang used to describe a person who is perceived to act in a sexual manner to seduce someone possessing male genitalia, without actually fulfilling the expected sexual actions. The term has been in use in Great Britain and... Read More

james amuta, Love & Relationships

February 3, 2012

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James Amuta: Is the fear of marriage the beginning of wisdom?

By James Amuta “…when looking for a date, it’s easier to go with what you want – video vixen-like beauty, with a booty that’d make Niki Minaj look like a teenage boy.” When you’re thirty, and you get a call from your father, and after saying hello very briefly, he tells you: “you know I... Read More

james amuta, Marriage, Relationships

January 26, 2012

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The Truth about the Lies of Friends with Benefits…

By James Amuta The more you tell a particular lie, the sooner you start believing it’s true. But the truth about lies is that two people cannot tell the same lie effectively forever. Either one of them finds religion, and decides to spill his guts, or the other begins to believe the lie – and... Read More

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December 30, 2011

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Sail Harbour Foundation raises funds for charity, see video!

by ‘Ifreke Inyang Caring for the needy is something the Sail Harbour Foundation takes seriously, and this year with support from Martini and Bacardi, they reached into the pockets of the privileged to raise funds for the not so fortunate. This mini event documentary on Sail Harbour features interviews and performances from Dr Frabz, Kiki Kimanu,... Read More

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Opinion: It’s better to leave if you can’t deal with domestic violence

Opinion: When the Wife is the Man of the House…

James Amuta talks X-rated: “Better a slut than a tease”

James Amuta: Is the fear of marriage the beginning of wisdom?

The Truth about the Lies of Friends with Benefits…

Sail Harbour Foundation raises funds for charity, see video!

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