Temie Giwa: This is what a feminist looks like (Y! FrontPage)

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In other to change this status quo, most of us must become feminists. Many women are not satisfied with staying at home and raising children, no matter how fulfilling this is. Women want to participate fully in the running of Nigeria.

Feminism has been in the news recently and since I spend a lot of my free time talking about gender, I thought I would add my voice to the conversation.

I am a feminist and I deeply believe in the equality of both genders. Women and men are different, but the differences between them remain inconsequential in the way our world works.

However, before we continue, I must confess some things. I am happily married to a young Nigerian man. We share household duties, and the ones we cannot share we contract out. We both work hard to provide for our family and we lead fulfilled lives. I also do not hate men; in fact I love them, one man in particular. I am not a lesbian, although I must state that I see nothing wrong with that. I love lipstick; I am currently in love with a shade of dark plum that brings out the glow in my skin and I spent my early 20s obsessively collecting gorgeous shoes. There are lots of women like me in the world, even in Nigeria. Women who have no problem loving men, who in fact currently plan to spend their lives with one man, who love lipstick and high heels and call themselves feminist. In short, I am not what most people think of as feminist, yet I am a feminist and I think you should be too.

Before we go on, we must agree on what feminism means for the purpose of this article. Feminism fights against the patriarchy. The patriarchy is a system of “society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it, in which the father or the eldest male acts as the head of a family and descent is traced through the male line”. So there it is. Feminism does not fight against men, it does not teach women to hate men and it does not seek to make women supreme. Feminism does not concern itself with whether women stay at home or work. Feminism wants a society in which men and women hold power and no adult is excluded from the right to participate in public life. Our greatest goal is to create a way of ordering our society that does not subtly or emphatically exclude women from holding power. In the private realm, feminism asks that male and female members of a family act as heads of that family and that the society works out a way of tracing descent that does not exclude the work women do to raise their children.

Women are still behind in all measures. Women in Nigeria earn less than men, regardless of educational qualifications, sometimes earning even less than men that are less qualified. Only 15% of Nigerian women have bank accounts. Many of these unbanked poor women live in rural areas where they make 60 – 79% of rural agricultural workforce, yet men are 5 times more likely to own the lands since patriarchy requires that male children inherit land. Only 7% of women own the land they farm and this ends up limiting their access to credit and participation in economic system. Women are worse off health wise, with 144 of us dying each month due to childbirth. Violence against women is rampant with a third of Nigerian women reporting that they have been subjected to some sort of violence. Northern women have low access to education. 80% of women in some 8 Northern states are unable to read. Yet, those who can represent women’s interest are routinely kept out of leadership positions by our popular culture. The representation in National Assembly is decreasing steadily over time. There are 360 representatives only 25 are women. Yet women make 49% of the Nigerian population. Of 109 senators, only 7 are women. In the local level, only 4% of local councilors are women. In public service, women hold 30% of public sector post and this number decreases the higher the post gets. The way our system is structured leaves 49% of unique views out of public discourse, excludes 49% of rich lives and brilliant minds from decision making and thus introducing all the adverse effects described above and makes our country less efficient and competitive.

In order to change this status quo, most of us must become feminists. Many women are not satisfied with staying at home and raising children, no matter how fulfilling this is. Women want to participate fully in the running of Nigeria. If you remain unconvinced, well do it for your mothers, sisters, wives, female friends and little daughters. You must become a feminist for you, for them or for your country.

*All statistics culled from the Gender in Nigeria report.
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Comments (5)

  1. I would really like to see this “Gender in Nigeria” report.

  2. Simple. Couldn’t sleep tonight because I kept having this argument in my head about housewives and working mums. If women do not work, your kids would grow up in a society controlled by just men and this would be unfair to both sexes.

  3. Mature and well written! Refreshing to have a feminist with an open mind. Well done!

  4. In january 2011 PDP national primary for the presidential party flag bearer….the three candidates where
    1) Goodluck Jonathan…a man
    2) Atiku Abubakar……a man
    and
    3) Sarah Jubril….a woman.

    Here Jonathan got 2736 votes
    Atiku got 805 votes
    and Jubril got only one vote (the one she casted for herself).
    Does this mean that she was the only woman there…what happened to the other women?

    Women are the main architeit of the own marginalization. Nigerian women are marginalized because most of our ladies don’t want to join hands and contribute…they believe its the man’s job to provide…”Are you not a man” thats their slogan in controversy.
    I look forward to the day that Women will be compulsorily drafted in time of war.
    I look forward to the time when many of our women will be the ones toasting and chyking the guys.
    I look forward to the time when a guy should not finance both hisbday and his girlfrnds bday.
    I look forward to the time when it will nolonger be Ladies First.
    It never bothers you why nice guys finish last??

    Feminist represents every thing I detest in a woman (thats why marriages are breaking in the west)…and from your writeup I think you are not a FEMINIST but an EQUALIST.
    Equalist is good…equal right for both man and woman provided she must stand up and be counted.
    And I dont believe that a woman is been paid lesser than a man…not in Nigerian Civil Service..not in the private/banking/oil/telecommunication etc sector.

  5. Thanks for writing this.its so insightful

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