by Shachi Lavingia, Team iDiva
That body of yours is not meant to be hidden, not from your partner at least. No, we don’t mean showing up at his office in nothing except a long jacket. Give him a glimpse of you in lingerie while you’re getting ready for work.
Subtle touch:
At some point in the day, touch his manhood very briefly, making it look like a genuine mistake and then press it just enough for him to know that it was anything but. Even you do this 50 times over a period of time, he’ll be surprised each time.
Feel sexy:
In order to look sexy, you need to feel it too. Just like role play, getting into the character is extremely important. You need to believe you’re sexy, for him to believe it too. Put on some sexy lingerie, little kohl in your eyes and style your hair by giving it sexy waves.
Show him what you got:
That body of yours is not meant to be hidden, not from your partner at least. No, we don’t mean showing up at his office in nothing except a long jacket. Give him a glimpse of you in lingerie while you’re getting ready for work.
Pretend like you don’t know he’s watching and hook your bra on while he’s in the room. He’s going to be waiting to get it off your body at the first chance he gets.
Be a tease:
When you’re leaving for work or anywhere else, get close enough to say goodbye! While you whisper goodbye into his ears, gently bite his ear for a few seconds before pulling back.
Run a finger down his spine while you bite his ears and watch him shiver. Make sure you’re using a tantalising perfume when you do that.
Video tape:
While he is at work, towards the end of the day, record yourself while you’re doing yourself and send him the video. Watching you bring yourself to a shuddering climax will drive him off the edge. You’re guaranteed a good night for sure!
Meet him out for dinner:
Meet him for dinner at a restaurant you like and pretend like nothing happened before. He’ll be wondering why you aren’t giving him any signs that you want him.
Wondering why you aren’t showing any reaction will turn him on and how! If you want, you could move your hands up his thigh, but don’t go near his member.
Sexy moves:
While he’s driving you back home, remove your stockings when you’re nearly home and make sure he’s watching while you remove them.
You can place your feet on the dashboard and let him have a direct view of your legs. If you are daring enough, get your panties off along with your stockings. Watch his eyes pop out while you do so!
Ride on top:
When you’re with your man in the elevator, most people look in front so you don’t have to be worried about anyone finding out what you’re up to. Stand in front of him and extremely close to him. Make sure your back is pressed against him. If you’ve done it all right, you’ll be able to feel his arousal.
Sit back and watch:
Don’t be surprised if he pulls you into a sexy kiss the minute you enter through the door, followed by a quickie. Everything you’ve done through the day, has left him wanting you with an urgency.
Leave some clothes on:
When you finally get intimate with him, leave one piece of clothing on. Don’t get your thong or your bra completely off. Sliding your thong to the side will give him the signal just fine. More so, not being able to see you completely naked, will take his arousal to another level.
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