Love is magical, Michael Jackson sang. But guess what isn’t all chocolates and flowers: heartbreak, that’s what- particularly when there are curveballs along the journey. That’s why one of the popular words around is “closure”, meaning I need to know why you broke up with me. Popular TV host and relationship guru, Steve Harvey, says closure is something women want, but do not need. It happened, move on.
That hasn’t stopped countless women, including Andrinah, from seeking answers to a broken heart.
See below:
https://twitter.com/Andrinah47/status/906433290525200384
I've just graduated and that current year was the 1st year of my 1st job at one of the biggest company in South Africa pic.twitter.com/qwbxU9znaF
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
So best believe I earned enough money that my parents stopped sending me money pic.twitter.com/eaeXGdAWNg
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
I lived in one the nicest flats in PTA CBD 🏢
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
I shopped every weekend guys, for occasions and just coz I could sometimes, enjoying my money like that. pic.twitter.com/5KSzWJLs9D
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
So, one Saturday afternoon, I was going to buy some fast food for myself, coz I didn't wanna cook,
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
There was a club next to where I lived, so that day it was packed than usual.
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
As I pass,I got noticed by this young guy looking guy, yooOo 😩he was so hot n I was so hot too, so u can imagine, we are both flaming hot 🔥 pic.twitter.com/LScrAxhLL9
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
He asked for my number and I gave him my number, he told me his name and I told him mine
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
I was so excited, I can't remember if I went to buy food still 😍😍😍
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
So vele, ke taba, se siya jola manje, pic.twitter.com/Q7YryMVHYU
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Speak English!!!!
— A-cube (@acubelive) September 9, 2017
I meant then we were officially dating
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Speak English!!!!
— A-cube (@acubelive) September 9, 2017
Ok, so I had a room mate who would go home every weekend and sometimes she's hardly home coz she was a busy professional lady
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
So brother would come over my place and spend time together and do the things that made the things not to be do 😝🍆👌🏼 pic.twitter.com/H1Eq8x76sV
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Them pots 🤗
— Vitamin Q (@Qrypton) September 9, 2017
He slept over the whole weekend and left Monday morning, so i actually woke him up and ran a bath 4him while i prepare skhaftini for him❤️
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
That time I'm so in love with Him
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
The only thing I knew about him is that he has one sibling, a young sister and they live ko Soweto
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
And his mom is a single mom so, it's only the 3 of three of them.
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
So we all done it's time to go to work he takes skhaftini and I take mine then off we go separate ways
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Ok suddenly he doesn't have a phone anymore, which means he can call me and I can't pic.twitter.com/PpuiS928s4
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
https://twitter.com/rollinemp/status/906502677428883457
I had no idea
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Ok that's still fine with me, I don't know what he said about the whole situation with the phone, I wasn't ok about it but what hell
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Now the following weekend, my roommate comes back on Sunday afternoon, so there comes the problem pic.twitter.com/9DwjCDMOHf
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
So I told him my roommate is around and I can't have him around coz my roommate was an older lady who I respected so much pic.twitter.com/QziIFJnRzc
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
He said ok that's fine, until it was then dark, around 8, now I need to go back to my place and prepare for work tomorrow
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Heban guy, starts begging me not to go, but I don't understand why, but eventually he starts crying pic.twitter.com/ydZR8CJOBc
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
https://twitter.com/Theri_Tee28/status/906465353282330624
It was tough, he was tired
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Bathong, lena!!!! Guy tells me he's homeless, he has no where to go or sleep or do anything pic.twitter.com/JvmOtGG6ti
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Heban this is serious, he sits me down by the stair ways, tells me the whole story, which even today I find it difficult to believe pic.twitter.com/ghFUankSTG
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Was about to ask where he sleeps during the week
— Nqobile🌟 (@Nqob_Star) September 9, 2017
The streets or friends
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
https://twitter.com/Sizwe_Mosia/status/906693596132380672
I know 😞
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 10, 2017
Guy tells me, he used to live here in PTA, with a girlfriend and he used to have a good job in Some famous computer shop, then…
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Girlfriend a pops some tender which her mom helped her to get in Mpumalanga, so girl convinced him to move to MP to her mom's house
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Hao guy was convinced coz there was money to be made, he then sold everything here in PTA then moved to MP pic.twitter.com/UIf9vUDvqM
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Ok then they lived there for 3 months, now girl's mom got tired of living with U'khonyana in her house with him not bringing anything in
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
The mother kicked him out and the girl wasn't Defending him at all 😩😩😩😩😩😫
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Bet after they chowed all his money pic.twitter.com/87FpDQIPa7
— sis Nono (@Siwe_Nono) September 10, 2017
Exactly
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 10, 2017
So all along he was crashing at some of his friends' places and you know people get tired eventually pic.twitter.com/j3s3ndP7bj
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Where is home? We have large families, relatives ke family mo rena hau
— Nqobile🌟 (@Nqob_Star) September 9, 2017
Hes from Soweto
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
The girl should have given him R50 back to Soweto but the knacks was still sweet..or she still thinking about it
— Mr Bullion (@Buzillion) September 9, 2017
It could be he was embarrassed to go back home with nothing
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
And he ended up living in the streets, guys he had no toothbrush I bought it for him pic.twitter.com/Bo66BTDmZ3
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
But at least he was hot yabo pic.twitter.com/q7IcUoJfXF
— Ntuthuko Mbatha (@MacNtuthu) September 9, 2017
So guys it was time to go to my place, I couldn't let him in, my roommate situation so I left him by the door 😩 pic.twitter.com/ThLfZlGsAM
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Ahaaawww guys pic.twitter.com/UMJTCDvSbf
— Mahlase (@NEEXXUUS) September 9, 2017
I slept with a broken heart pic.twitter.com/t5mjwc2Dqc
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
He also told me he doesn't even work, he told me the truth, that time im thinking where in my tupperware pic.twitter.com/c2YMHTdyR8
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
But anyway, I went to work the following day, I spoke to my friend colleague and explained the whole story, so she was also touched
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
So guys I loved this guy some much I had decided to move out of where I lived and find a place where we can live together pic.twitter.com/sTyOhFziwn
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
I promise you, my mind and heart was made up
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
I asked for advices, so I told him I'm gonna look for a place so we can move in together while u try to stand on your feet again
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Guys he refused, I guess he felt less of A man. pic.twitter.com/652jghflNK
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Then he started touring the streets😂, coz he had stopped calling and I was getting worried 😩
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
He would randomly call me and I would beg for him to come back where ever he is pic.twitter.com/s6WC9F5kco
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Poor thang…you were still in love weren't you pic.twitter.com/cFHnboOyZB
— Ntuthuko Mbatha (@MacNtuthu) September 9, 2017
Yes 😩
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
He said he will come back but he never did. Even today guys, Mongezi McDonald from Soweto never came back to me guys, I need closure pic.twitter.com/0Z6r5LPdPU
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Your Tupperware, u need closure about it too. At least know it survived the streets
— Likhwa (@LikhwaGoje) September 9, 2017
U feel me 😩😩😩😩😩
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
Guys he used to work at Incredible Connections when he left to MP
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
https://twitter.com/PhoenixMkhwanaZ/status/906523009074253826
lol I can't rebuild it's done it's done
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
If he had not left, you wouldn't have met your husband! Yaz' this thing called life is weird sometimes. Hope he's okay though
— Pheladi 👑 (@Thato_Chidi) September 9, 2017
Ya and I guess things happen for a reason you know
— Nina Berries (@Ninaberries_) September 9, 2017
After this thread am officially a hot street guy around pta ke kopa thuso hle… pic.twitter.com/I1wJYLbbv0
— Naphtally Phasha (@Notlo6) September 9, 2017
Wow.
