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[The Sexuality Blog] Should children and pre-teens be allowed to switch genders?

On the internet there have been a slew of articles that report on people beginning the process of transitioning from one gender to another and then choosing some way in, to revert to being their birth sex. The most recent example of this was reported by a number of news outlets across the world, and dealt with a subject that most people who generally will ignore a discussion on transsexuality and gender feel obligated to pick a side; a child transitioning.
The boy in question, Patrick Mitchell, according to reports, began to dress in female clothing from a very young age and expressed repeatedly that  he didn’t feel comfortable in his own body. Just before he turned 12, Mitchell told his mother the feeling of disaffection with his body wasn’t something that was dissipating and he wanted to see a doctor. He was diagnosed as having acute ‘Gender Dsyphoria’ and sent to an endocrinologist who prescribed oxytocin, the hormone responsible for female puberty. Two years later and some way into puberty, Mitchell has changed his mind and decided that he would much rather stay a boy, albeit one who is gender fluid. However, his body has undergone much of the change associated with female puberty, including breasts and a lack of facial hair. He wishes to transition to male (again) and his mother and doctors are unsure how to proceed.
On the surface, it seems the answer is simple; allow Mitchell to ‘transition’ again. It is after all his body, and his decision to either live as male or female. However, it is obvious that Mitchell is a child and the decision making process as regarding his preferred gender is a decision that might need to be made in tandem with adults, or deferred entirely until he is an adult himself and responsible for his own actions. However Mitchell has already made a life changing decision that has proven to be the wrong one, even though it was made with expert analysis from specialist doctors and with the consent of his mother. Who is to blame? Is there any blame to be shared?
I cannot answer all the questions; but what I can say is this. One of the things that needs to be investigated in light of Mitchell’s situation, is our preoccupation with gendering individuals and the ensuring the individuals gendered in a particular way perform stay firmly within the societal confines of the gender they are associated with. Mitchell liked to wear dresses and put on make up, doesn’t exactly make him a girl, it simply means he is a person who enjoys wearing dresses and make up. This is not to say he isn’t actually trans, it simply means our strict associations of dress with gender often force people, especially young ones, to conform to meet our unspoken expectations.
At 14, Mitchell’s story is still unfolding, but how he chooses to go about performances of gender will inform people of his generation, and we will all learn a thing or two from him/her/them.
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