From the Magazine: When it comes to relationships, it pays to go the extra mile

by Thetoolsman Would you forget it if you found a wristwatch in one of your shoes with a note attached while you’re dressing up for work in the morning? I love surprises. Well, the good ones. I tell this to everyone and anyone I’m remotely close to right after I tell them I also love surprising... Read More

from the magazine, Love & Relationships, The Toolsman

March 7, 2012

Wale Adetula: Set fire to the rain

…if you’re so convinced he has feelings for you but can’t figure out why he can’t seem to commit, let him go… I’m a little bit pi***d right now so y’all have to bear with me. Before I begin, let me just state that I’m shoving the bro-code to the curb today. Why? Cause I... Read More

The Toolsman, Wale Adetula

February 25, 2012

Wale Adetula: ‘RIP Chi…my good friend’

I first met Chi when I was about ten. I think it was at my Grandmothers place and it was totally coincidental. My Granny’s next door neighbour, Anne was a showstopper. Anyways, it was my first time spending my holidays at Granny’s place and after playing outside for a bit, I started heading back in... Read More

Chivalry, The Toolsman, Wale Adetula

August 23, 2011

The concept of ‘free’

by The Toolsman I visited my girlfriend the other day – actually, my soon-to-be fiancée (shhhh). It was a lonely Saturday afternoon and after we chatted a bit, that usual one thing led to the usual other thing, and as we began an intense make-out session. Moments after, her BlackBerry began buzzing – gaddem... Read More

The Naked Convos, The Toolsman

August 2, 2011

TF(or)A: The two out of three theory

by The Toolsman Two out of three theory? I’m sure some readers are wondering what the heck that is. Well, just as it is, two out of three, thats all a woman needs to meet the “I’ll bed you/I’ll wife you” criteria for most guys. You might have heard guys talking about TAF, TFA or... Read More

Love & Relationships, The Toolsman

July 20, 2011

Naija Weddings: 10 naked truths

by The Toolsman So the date is set. The invitations, sent. The venue, booked. Aso Ebi – imported plus Ankara and houdine for engagement. MC and DJ – check, better still, we’ll get a live band or what the heck, get D’banj. Caterer nko? We got that. Drinks are even going to be served by... Read More

Nigerian Wedding, The Toolsman

July 12, 2011

How to make love to a woman

by The Toolsman So, I saw this movie titled “How to make love to a woman” over the weekend – very nice movie #IMO and it inspired today’s post so, here are some pointers that will help next time you’re making love to your woman….enjoy. Put her in ‘The Mood’: Before you have sex, you... Read More

Love, The Toolsman

July 5, 2011

Say it with music!

by The Toolsman How many times have you sat by your laptop listening to the words it’s over now coming from the voices of the men of 112 over and over and over again? Or you stayed in bed for hours listening to Trey Songz croon Black Roses, Toni Braxton sing Unbreak my heart and... Read More

Love, Music, Relationships, The Toolsman