Nigerian actress, Dayo Amusa on Instagram Wednesday, said she used to be a “fixer”, reason she stayed in bad relationships.

However, she says has now discovered that she cannot “save them”.

Excerpts:

“I used to be a fixer. I stayed in bad relationships, attracting the same type of men—men who needed to be fixed.”

“But I must admit, I have failed every single time.”

“I never gave myself a chance to sit back and question my motives. Instead of asking why I constantly felt obligated to pick up someone else’s broken pieces, I ran to pick them up without a second thought. Being selfless made me think that coming second didn’t matter because I was putting someone else’s worthiness first. And in the end, rank doesn’t matter, right?”

“As selfless, thoughtful, giving women, we think we will be “that woman”—the one who will change them. We think we can turn a cheater into a loyal boyfriend. We think we can help him walk away from the drugs and alcohol. We believe we can help him get over his commitment issues and aim for a stable future with us. We trust that we can get rid of the emotional baggage that he has been carrying for years. We attract these men because we believe they need us. And to leave them would be selfish, insensitive and ruthless.”