by Aderonke Adebanjo Nope, it wasn’t a typo. I actually did say “it ain’t easy being a man”. We all know it ain’t easy being a woman either but no need to go there—for now. I actually feel sorry for guys and I’ll tell you why. They have a lot of responsibility when it comes... Read More

aderonke adebanjo, Love, lovechest, man, Relationships, woman

June 2, 2012

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Aderonke Adebanjo: A friend in need is a friend indeed – and the one you should marry

by Aderonke Adebanjo Marry your friend. I’m an advocate for that. After all, when the butterflies subside, friendship is usually what real relationships are made of, right? I feel that we have lost the art of making friends. I think part of the reason is a lot of people feel they don’t have time to make friends. If you’re... Read More

best friends, friends, happinness, Love, Relationships

May 20, 2012

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Monkey Business: Karma needs to go on a break

by Ifeanyi Dike Jr There used to be manners, where I would never catch myself exchanging words with an older person for whatever reason until Lagos driving happened to me. Karma needs to chill for a bit. Who’s with me? I mean, she just gets in the way. And sometimes, we need to invigorate ourselves... Read More

karma, lagos roads, monkey business, Relationships

May 11, 2012

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Toyin Fajj: “I want to be your uncle” (30 Days, 30 Voices)

This is not “aristoism” as usual; it’s a new and destructive wave of extramarital affairs almost becoming a societal norm. According to the word web dictionary, the standard definition for an uncle is: “The brother of your father or mother; the husband of your aunt”! Here in Nigeria though, this role is taken up... Read More

30 Days, Relationships, toyin fajj

April 3, 2012

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Wale Adetula: Men lie, women lie!

… with a painting, the painter is in control. By painter, I mean women. The canvas? Their bodies. The paint colours, may range from simple makeup to body magic or 90210… Men fall in love with pictures but they also sometimes paint these pictures themselves. You probably read the title and wondered, well, that’s pretty... Read More

opinion, Relationships, Wale Adetula

March 29, 2012

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Wale Adetula: ‘Two out of three’: Theories on dating women

Ok, so I won’t go ahead and say all men have adopted this theory. I mean, I’ve dealt with a few 1/3 in my short life I’ll come straight out and say it: two out of three—that’s all a woman needs to meet the “I’ll bed you/I’ll wife you” criteria for most guys. You might have... Read More

looks, personality, Relationships, visual creature

February 3, 2012

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James Amuta: Is the fear of marriage the beginning of wisdom?

By James Amuta “…when looking for a date, it’s easier to go with what you want – video vixen-like beauty, with a booty that’d make Niki Minaj look like a teenage boy.” When you’re thirty, and you get a call from your father, and after saying hello very briefly, he tells you: “you know I... Read More

james amuta, Marriage, Relationships

January 26, 2012

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The Truth about the Lies of Friends with Benefits…

By James Amuta The more you tell a particular lie, the sooner you start believing it’s true. But the truth about lies is that two people cannot tell the same lie effectively forever. Either one of them finds religion, and decides to spill his guts, or the other begins to believe the lie – and... Read More

Friends with Benefits, james amuta, Relationships

August 5, 2011

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Of Mars & Venus: Does ‘work love’ work?

by HD Have you had your eye on that oh so pretty girl at work but kept away because of perceived ‘work place wahala’? We spend so much time in the office or on various workplace assignments, that it is only natural for relationships to develop between some employees. Some of these relationships will... Read More

Of Mars & Venus. Love, Relationships

July 5, 2011

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Say it with music!

by The Toolsman How many times have you sat by your laptop listening to the words it’s over now coming from the voices of the men of 112 over and over and over again? Or you stayed in bed for hours listening to Trey Songz croon Black Roses, Toni Braxton sing Unbreak my heart and... Read More

Love, Music, Relationships, The Toolsman

June 29, 2011

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Survivor, Independent Woman or Bitch?

by The Toolsman SURVIVOR. INDEPENDENT WOMAN. Those who don’t understand her (perhaps), prefer the term BITCH. Whichever you chose, the fact remains the world has come to acknowledge the continuous development of a new breed of women (perhaps?) or the mere evolution of a gender from its emotional, submissive ancestral background to a liberal, independent... Read More

Independent Woman, Relationships, Survivor, Toolsman

Aderonke Adebanjo: It ain’t easy being a man!

Aderonke Adebanjo: A friend in need is a friend indeed – and the one you should marry

Monkey Business: Karma needs to go on a break

Toyin Fajj: “I want to be your uncle” (30 Days, 30 Voices)

Wale Adetula: Men lie, women lie!

Wale Adetula: ‘Two out of three’: Theories on dating women

James Amuta: Is the fear of marriage the beginning of wisdom?

The Truth about the Lies of Friends with Benefits…

Of Mars & Venus: Does ‘work love’ work?

Say it with music!

Survivor, Independent Woman or Bitch?

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