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All we gathered on the Mayowa and Nelo unconsented sex tape story

by Toluwanimi Onakoya More and more women over the past weeks have been coming out to share sexual allegations and their own sexual assault stories. This has come against the backdrop…

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#BBNaija: Omashola and Mike prove that men still don’t understand consent and respect for women’s boundaries

After DJ Lambo did a decent job in presiding over last night's party, the Big Brother Naija house devolved into chaos. It was Tuoyo's birthday and Mike thought it was…

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[The Sexuality Blog] Apparently, now you have to “fight” to prove you were raped

This is a story of Mahmood Farooqui, a film director who raped an American foreign exchange and got sentenced for aggravated rape in 2016 but just got off during his…

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The Thread: Finally, men tell us why they rape

This is not to assume that men are always the perpetrators when it comes to rape, even if by the laws of Nigeria, a man cannot be raped.  Currently, Abuja…

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[The Sexuality Blog] M.I. Abaga thinks R.Kelly grooming teenage girls for sex is ‘excusable’ because they are above the age of consent

So podcasts have become a thing in Nigeria, and we on The Sexuality Blog have even mentioned podcasts like Now "O' Clock podcast and the We Just Got Back Podcast…

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Opinion: Understanding the need for sex education

by Stand to end rape (STER) Initiative Sex education is coaching on matters generally relating to human sexuality. These issues include emotional relations/responsibilities, human sexual anatomy, sexual activity, sexual abuse…

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The Thread: “Ugly and dishonourable” “Vile” | Is stealthing the new rape? Twitter is beyond disgusted

Just when we were trying to put the Kemen-TBoss sexual assault back and forth behind us, International Twitter goes into spasms over this new trend called stealthing. Apparently, there's an…

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Yes! TBoss just came through with the response we have all been waiting for [WATCH]

by Soma Oj. One factor that has somewhat affected the dynamics of the sexual harassment discourse flowing from what happened between TBoss and Kemen in the Big Brother House weeks…

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The Thread: Adesua Etomi advocates forgiveness for Kemen, then does a 360 as new facts emerge

Kemen has shot back into the limelight, no thanks to AY using the platform of his show, AY Live, to request that Nigerians forgive the dude. No surprise that others,…

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#BBNaija: Let’s talk about consent, Desmond Elliot visits the house +more highlights

Day 45 in the Big Brother House and it's International Women's Day just as it is in "the outside world". Biggie smartly used the opportunity to get the housemate to…

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[The Sexuality Blog] Back To Basics: Let’s talk about consent

While we've always known Nigeria has a big, big problem with sex. We misunderstand it as a concept and misappropriate it as an activity, and then we wonder why we…

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The Thread: Here’s why masturbation is not only good, but absolutely necessary

Would kemen have gotten into trouble if he had followed this fella's advice below? We think not. A lot of the tweets circulating on social media after the disqualification said;…

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Akin Akintayo: Nigeria- On the #BBNaija disqualification, let’s not be conflicted

by Akin Akintayo Alright, it’s Big Brother Last night, the irksome menace of the Big Brother franchise flooded my social media space with the news of a disqualification from the…

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The Thread: The dumbest reactions to Kemen’s disqualification from #BBNaija

Nigeria is such a strange place. Matters that are black and white elsewhere take on a coat of many colours in Nigeria. For instance, it is quite clear, more so…

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The Thread: In case you’re wondering, this is what consent really means | #BBNaija

Tweets like the one directly below are proof that many Nigerians need extra lessons on the concept of consent. First, the alphabets Second, these people CANNOT give…

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The Thread: Why is consent is so hard to understand? | #BBNaija

Big brother Naija housemate TBoss was assaulted by Kemen yesterday and he was disqualified and given the boot. You should have seen the uproar that caused. The bone of contention…

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The Thread: Kemen was not the only sexual predator in the #BBNaija house

Ekemini Ekerette, aka Kemen has been disqualified from the Big Brother Nigeria game for groping TBoss while she was asleep. Reactions are mixed: some hail #BBNaija for their decisive action;…

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‘I asked the goat for permission’ Man arrested for having SEX with animal

by Adeola Balogun A man in Jigawa has been arrested for having sex with a goat in the Baranda forest environs of the Dutse Local Government Area of the state.…

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Monster: Man, 27, arrested for raping a 5-year-old in Taraba

by 'Jola Sotubo A 27-year-old man in Taraba has been arrested by the police and taken before a court on allegations of rape. William Julius, was arraigned before a Magistrate…

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Opinion: Meet Sani Yerima, the libidinous senator

by Bayo Oluwasanmi What type of people do we elect to run the affairs of our country? What do you expect when law breakers are law makers? What happens when…

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