*singing* It’s too big, it’s too wide, it won’t fit… I got a big you know… Oh, not that.. and certainly not that famous head either.. Today we shall be discussing a very big and famous Elephant. It’s been around for so long we all just live with him and I thought it was about... Read More

#TheToolsman: Getting rid of the ‘Take her home to mama’ syndrome

by Wale Adetula …people find it hard to understand when I tell them my mother has never met any of my girlfriends. You know when you get in a relationship and the first few weeks everything is just perfect? You just never seem to get enough of him or her and everyone around... Read More

Love & Relationships, TheToolsman, Wale Adetula

November 1, 2011

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Let's talk love & sex : Photos from the Naked Convos II

Seyi Lawal The second edition of the Naked Convos Series, an interactive initiative designed to create safe spaces where young men and women engage in open and honest conversations particularly about love, sex and relationships held on Sunday October 30th 2011 at the African themed Bogo Biri House. The event tagged ‘Money Power Respect’, was... Read More

Naked Convos II, TheToolsman

September 7, 2011

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Love this, Love that: The plight of a word losing meaning

by TheToolsman Our society is one where certain actions, phrases and words have been bastardized to levels where they mean little or nothing. I could go over a few of them but today, I’ll just go with the one currently riding my gears the most, ‘LOVE. Yes, the world’s favourite four-letter word (no, it’s not... Read More

Jude Law, TheToolsman