Are you making love or just having sex? – on #WeekendGroove with Damilola Jagun

by Kolapo Olapoju As crude as it may sound and seem, it holds water and bears little conjecture to affirm that majority of men just want to have sex, while the female yearn to make love. Now, you may begin to wonder, ‘what’s the difference between making love and having sex’? Ordinarily, it shouldn’t take... Read More

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July 12, 2014

“Goodnight my beautiful people”: Jilted lover’s Facebook post before committing suicide in Cross River (PICTURED)

by S’ola Filani Effion Otu, a 21-year-old student of Maritime Academy, Oron, Akwa Ibom, committed suicide by hanging himself in his room on Thursday morning after he was reportedly jilted by his girlfriend. According to reports, the unfortunate incident happened on the same day his family marked the 10th anniversary of his dad’s death in a... Read More

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July 11, 2014

7 tips for getting through to a partner who doesn’t listen

by Lyndsie Robinson Getting through to a partner who doesn’t listen is frustrating, difficult, and likely to seem like an exercise in futility once you get exasperated enough. It’s not necessarily that your partner doesn’t want to listen to you; he or she may simply lack active listening skills. Sometimes, of course, there... Read More

July 10, 2014

5 dating tips for single Christians

by ‘Ifreke Inyang 1) Do not be unequally yoked. This is what 2 Corinthians 6:14 says emphatically. It is not right to enter into relationships with unbelivers. Light cannot abide with darkness. If you are dating someone who is not converted, you are playing with your life and your future. 2) Put obedience over passion.... Read More

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July 10, 2014

Grace Efezokhae: Is being faithful to your partner really impossible? (Y! Superblogger)

by Grace Efezokhae The height of it was when a married friend of mine was “advising” me that when I get married, my husband will surely cheat on me and I shouldn’t just be bothered. She went on and on about how it is a “normal” thing. I rebuked it immediately. We’ve all heard stuffs... Read More

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July 9, 2014

16 things only people in casual relationships understand

by Anna Breslaw For instance, when you talk to your mom on the phone and she asks you if you’re seeing anyone and since you tell her everything, you want to tell her about this person, but it’s a little weird for you to be like, “Yeah, there’s one guy I’m sexing but we... Read More

July 9, 2014

Chimee Adioha: Martina’s mutiny (30 Days, 30 Voices)

by Chimee Adioha ”Martina was too guilty to be with Junior; she had left Junior with me and ran to a man who was not her husband.” Martina returned on a Sunday evening when the rains had stopped and there was a rainbow in the sky. I watched Martina play with little Junior in... Read More

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July 8, 2014

10 things you should NEVER stop doing in a relationship

by MENSXP The moment you start lying to one another, you create a rift in your relationship. It is like a crack that simply keeps widening. Avoid lying and cheating completely. 1. Never Stop Saying ‘I Love You’: However cliched it may sound, those three words have a certain impact on a woman... Read More

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July 6, 2014

For the ladies: 9 major kissing fails to avoid if you want to keep him

by Adrianna Velez Do you kiss the exact same way every time? We all love familiarity, but try and vary things a bit. “Studies show that men rate tongue kissing higher than women, so spice things up by alternating between a hot and heavy smooch and a more sensual kiss Are you... Read More

July 6, 2014

The 8 types of guys your best friends marry

by Anna Breslaw Despite your gentle discouragement when you saw the ring, passive-aggressive comments when you helped her pick the dress, and general disdain, she is marrying that asshole. 1. The finance guy. You saw it coming — they’ve been together for years, and moved into a shared apartment in a luxury... Read More

July 5, 2014

8 (shameful) ways women try to attract men

by Julia Austin You emasculate guys, you point out things that are girly about them, you make them believe you see them as total feminine wusses. You do this so the guy wants toprove to you that he’s manly, by asking you out, kissing you, asking for your number or whatever. Finding a... Read More

July 5, 2014

‘Keep your ears open’: 5 essential tips to keep your relationship alive

by Debarati S. Sen Is your better-half breaking up your made-in-heaven jodi? Is he/she playing the game of love with a different partner? Is he/she cheating on you? Of course marriages are made in heaven but you need to always remember that, it is here on earth, that they are broken and these... Read More

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July 1, 2014

11 reasons to date a younger guy

by Anna Breslaw For instance: During sex, Nick Cannon and Mariah Carey listen to … wait for it … Mariah Carey. When it comes down to it, you’re the alpha dog in the relationship. Because you’re the grown-up, and grown-ups know better. Just kidding, kind of. 1. He has more energy — and his... Read More

July 1, 2014

9 reasons not wanting children is totally OK

by Laura Beck One of many that we make in this life! And making the decision to not have kids or to have kids is between you, your partner (if one exists), and um, that’s pretty much it. If anyone pressures you to make babies and you don’t want to, it’s not about... Read More

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June 28, 2014

Why I’m yet to get married – Denrele Edun finally opens up

by S’ola Filani Media personality Denrele Edun has disclosed in an interview why he is yet to settle down with the right partner. The 31-year-old Channel O presenter again reacted to rumours of his alleged homosexual affair with Charles Oputa (Charly Boy). He also spoke about his career and admitted that he doesn’t know... Read More

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June 22, 2014

7 ways to make him love you more

by Tara Zimliki Sometime it is tough to let someone in to see your flaws and fears, but you will fall in love hardest if you let yourself be vulnerable. Are there ways to make him love you more? If you are like me, you try to do everything right and do... Read More

June 22, 2014

‘They have hotter sex’: 7 reasons to date a left-handed person

by Michelle Toglia No, money can’t buy you love, but — cha-ching! — lefties aren’t doing so bad out there. Left-handed fellas are 15 percent more likely to be richer than a right-handed man. And for those who went to college — 26 percent richer. A man or woman who can support themselves? Win. 1. They Have Hotter Sex... Read More

June 18, 2014

Is your partner cheating on you? Here are 4 ways to stop it

by The Romance Code Some affairs are very short-lived; the person involved gets no more attached than any of us were to the XFL. Others involve much more emotion. When your partner is involved in the latter, it’s appropriate to give them time to grieve. 1. Confront Your Partner In the hypothetical, How To... Read More

June 16, 2014

Are you ready? 7 (future) relationship trends that may surprise you

by Corina Dondas In the future being single will no longer have a cliché age, since a lot of people of all ages can become single at several points in their life. So, you can search for Mr. or Mrs. Right no matter how old you are, since there will be a lot... Read More

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June 16, 2014

5 reasons to marry an older man

by Sasha Brown-Worsham It’s a small age gap but can feel enormous when it comes to maturity. Older men are the stuff of high school dreams. I remember entering the halls when I was 14 years old, shocked by how good the senior “men” looked and knowing right then and there that... Read More

June 15, 2014

24 things no one tells you about being a wedding guest

by Anna Breslaw Don’t try to be the center of attention. Whether you’re stealing the spotlight on purpose (because you’re that kind of person) or by accident (getting too drunk and crying in the reception hall bathroom), this isn’t your night. How to Do Weddings: Yet another foreign (and expensive) aspect of... Read More

June 14, 2014

7 habits that most people have

by Jasmine Allen Who doesn’t litter? Unless you’re an environmentalist or someone who is totally against littering, you’ll most likely occasionally throw something on the ground. I can honestly say that I litter, but it’s really not a good thing. There are many habits that most people have or do, sometimes consciously and... Read More

June 14, 2014

#DivorceDrama: ‘My wife’s always receiving suspicious phone calls’ – Husband laments in court

by S’ola Filani A 44-year-old man, Saheed Taiwo of Sango area, Ilorin, the Kwara State capital, is set to divorce Azeezat, his wife of six years, for being wayward. Praying before an Ilorin Area Court in the state, Taiwo said his wife was in the habit of making friends with men claiming they were... Read More

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June 13, 2014

15 crazy things you can only do if you’re in love

by Maggie Parker Nope, not crazy at all to marry someone you can’t actually have a conversation with in the same language. And when your friends are trashing it, you find yourself saying, “Well, anything’s possible when it comes to love!” Oh yeah, you went there. Some of these you swore you’d never... Read More

June 13, 2014

Do it right: How to double-date like a professional

by Megan Reynolds You can’t have your cake and eat it, too. If you suspect that one of the people you’re seeing is starting to develop real, actionable feelings, and those feelings just aren’t there for you yet, it’s in your best interest and theirs to be honest. There comes a time in everybody’s... Read More