4 reasons why “it will be different with me” syndrome is dangerous

by Claudia Maittlen-Harris Other women warn you to stay away, his friends tell you about his sordid past, and yet, you’ll convince yourself that you and you alone are up to the challenge of taming him. Remember that hot guy in high school who dated every girl in his class, despite treating every one of... Read More

dating, dating advice, dating donts, dating tip, Relationships

December 4, 2012

Opinion: Is marriage dying or is it just the economy?

by Rev. Jesse Herriott, M.A. In many cases, it’s not the “ultra-romantic” times that define a marriage; it’s the tough times that really define what that relationship will be for all parties involved. The economic recession is definitely one of those occasions. Committed relationships and marriages alike are entered into with the intention that they... Read More

dating, engagement, Getting Engagement, How To Propose, Marriage, Marriage Proposals, Proposals, Proposing, relationship advice, Relationships, Weddings News, Will He Propose

December 3, 2012

6 signs he is really in love with you

by Dr. Keith Ablow Consider these six points of light. They can be the signs that tell you when you’ve found love in a world that, too often, offers too little of it. Use them to light your path away from anyone who claims to love you, without the proof. They say all you need... Read More

Love, love and relationships, Marriage, Partnerships, Relationships, romance, wedding

November 30, 2012

8 proven ways to improve your relationship

from DFTM All relationships need a little pick-me-up sometimes–even the best of them. If you feel like your relationship isn’t quite what it used to be, here are some things you can do to improve it and keep your fire burning. 1. Improve your communication There is nothing more important in a relationship than communication.... Read More

dating, exercise, healthy eating, insecurities, libido, Love, love and sex, marital health, Relationships, romance, sex life, sleep, smoking, stress, women

November 30, 2012

Dilemma of a wife in waiting, a narrative by Folabi Williams

by Folabi Williams And my response was and is still that people change! Guess by good friends he meant the communication style has changed. The things that brought us together were NYSC and job search. We share and shared nothing else in common. Don’t get the wrong impression of the how, when and why this... Read More

Folabi Williams, heartbreak, Love, Relationships, wife in waiting

November 29, 2012

7 signs he’s never going to propose

by Bree Maresca-Kramer If he has the intention of moving forward with you, he will clearly state that to you. If he is unsure or not ready yet, he will say things like, “I need more time, I haven’t thought about the future, we are having such a great time I don’t want to rush... Read More

dating, engagement, Getting Engagement, How To Propose, Marraige, Marriage Proposals, Proposals, Proposing, relationship advice, Relationships, Weddings News, Will He Propose

November 29, 2012

Chi-Chi Egwaoje: To my first love (30 Days, 30 Voices)

Was it the timing? Were we too eager? Somehow, our attempt at love again was headed for a big crash even before it took off. If wishes were horses, beggars would ride. If wishes were horses you and I will be together in perfect love. If wishes were horses you will be the perfect man... Read More

boyfriend, Chi-chi Egwaoje, Emotions, letting go, Love, Relationships

November 27, 2012

Opinion: Introducing the ‘intimidating’ woman

by Dr. NerdLove But the fact of the matter remains: the prettier you are, the more likely that guys are going to have a hard time feeling comfortable approaching you. I want to introduce you to someone. She’s in her early to mid 20s. She’s smart. She’s articulate. She’s pretty damn good looking. She’s well... Read More

For The Ladies, intimidating women, Relationships, self-esteem, self-limiting, Stereotypes

November 27, 2012

Can the infidelity-damaged relationship survive?

by Peggy Drexler Multiple studies conclude that men are more deeply affected by a sexual affair; women, by an emotional one. The Petraeus and Broadwell families can take comfort in one thing: this too shall pass. The TV trucks will depart. The photographers will zip up their equipment bags. The phones will stop ringing with... Read More

cheating spouse, david petraeus, Healthy Living News, infidelity, love and relationships, PAULA BROADWELL, Relationships

November 25, 2012

Oddie Moghalu: While you’re waiting (30 Days, 30 Voices)

However, this time of singleness is not a time to just live, you know since you are not in a any committed relationship it is ok to play around and ‘have fun’, living for no purpose. I have to say admit it took so much hesitation for me to get myself to share this and... Read More

God, Marriage, Oddie Moghalu, Purpose, Relationships, single, waiting

November 23, 2012

Abigail Anaba: What’s in a length? (Y! Superblogger)

…if all men are busy making their women so happy, why are there so many women in relationships who are so unhappy about their sex life? Men can be just plain dumb! No apologies. They are dumber when it comes to issues that has to do with their manhood [read sex and allied affairs]. I’m... Read More

Abigail Anaba, intimacy, men, Relationships, women, Y! Superblogger

November 22, 2012

5 things women are insecure about and how to deal with them

from DFTM When it comes to dating, most women have a few insecurities and they tend to worry about very different things than men. Your actions can make a big difference on how secure she’ll feel when she’s with you. Here are 5 things women worry about when it comes to dating or being in... Read More

dating, insecurities, Love, love and sex, Relationships, romance, women

November 15, 2012

Top 5 misconceptions about sex

by Susan Dutton Freund When it comes to sex, do you know fact from fiction? Find out now. In my work as a relationship coach, I read articles related to new research on all kinds of topics, including human sexuality, and some of what I’ve been reading about sex lately really disturbs me. It seems... Read More

Love, Marriage, Relationships

November 15, 2012

6 things men do to get ladies in bed that actually turn them off

by Kathy Benjamin Unfortunately, it turns out there are just as many things you’re doing to repel women, again without even knowing it. Don’t blame us; it’s science. As we mentioned in this article, attracting a woman can be so easy you don’t even realize you’re doing it. Of course, most of the methods... Read More

getting ladi, mating, Relationships

November 12, 2012

Gbemiro Adebimpe: Honest moments (30 Days, 30 Voices)

I feel guilty when I scribble. I treat you as I do my Lord and saviour. I go to Christ only in times of need. Neglecting Him when I feel all is well. I treat you the same way now. Pen & Paper Confessions (3am Thoughts) Here I am. Feeling lost again, so maybe I’ll... Read More

30 days 30 voices, Emotions, Gbemiro Adebimpe, heart, honest moments, infatuation, Love, Relationships

November 11, 2012

16 things I wish they had taught me in school

by Henrik Edberg Setting goals and reviewing them frequently is one way to keep your focus on what’s important and to help you take action that will move your closer to toward where you want to go. I am 28 now. I don’t think about the past or regret things much these days. But sometimes... Read More

education, journal, learn, rapport, Relationships, School

November 6, 2012

Lost your mojo? 10 ways to get your groove back

by Barrie Davenport Remember how it felt on your best days when you were twenty-five? The world was your oyster. You were full of energy. You didn’t have too many responsibilities. You were probably turning a few heads and tripping the light fantastic. Your mojo cup was full to the brim. How’s that cup looking... Read More

groove, Marriage, mojo, Relationships, romance

November 5, 2012

7 reasons you are jealous of your friends… 7 ways to stop

by Alina Dizik Living within your means instead of trying to keep up with the Joneses will ultimately make you happier. Overcoming Jealousy: As thrilled as you are that your inner circle consists of successful, happy women, it’s normal to question whether you’re as successful and happy as they are. “Women instinctively compare themselves to... Read More

body, fashion, finances, Jealous, Relationships

November 4, 2012

#GoldDiggerAlert: 8 signs she’s only after your money

by DFTM She will intentionally stop using her birth control without you knowing and will even go as far as tampering with condoms prior to intercourse, i.e., putting a pin through her boyfriend’s condom package without him ever suspecting it. Every guy likes to wine and dine his woman, but when extravagance and material possessions... Read More

aspirations, Career, gold digger, Love, money, Relationships

November 4, 2012

Nkiru Okoye: Choosing a honeymoon destination (Y! Superblogger)

The most important thing is that you have a restful time with your spouse, distractions free. Most couples hardly realize how much energy and resources, both mental and physical they have put into planning their wedding until after the wedding is done. It is therefore important to “heave a sigh of relief” by getting away... Read More

bride, honeymoon, Relationships, relaxation, The Gambia, Weddings, Y! Superblogger

November 3, 2012

8 sexy ways to burn fat and get into shape

by Sarah Jio Sex—and smooching and snuggling and everything else on the spectrum—is great for your relationship and happiness, but intimate time with your sweetie is also terrific for your physical health. Not only does that “loving feeling” get your heart rate up, it can burn some serious calories, too! Check out the calorie-burning... Read More

Fitness, kissing, Love, making out, massage, Relationships, sarah jio, slimming

November 1, 2012

Look before you leap: 10 signs she’ll be a ‘Jezebel’ wife

by DFTM Love alone is not enough to make a marriage work, and certain characteristics are warning signs for a troubled marriage down the road. Here are some of the most obvious signs that your girlfriend is not marriage material. If you’re thinking of asking your girlfriend to become your wife, deciding if you’re... Read More

love and relationships, Marriage, nagging, Relationships

November 1, 2012

10 marriage ‘rules’ you should break…

by Denise Schipani A drama-filled relationship may feel exciting, but in the long run it’s not likely to be healthy. Isn’t it better, she says, to “boringly” know where your spouse is every night than to be “excited” by constant ups and downs? The two of you should do everything together; work out every disagreement (without... Read More

happiness, Love, marital bliss, Marriage, Relationships, rules

October 31, 2012

“Yes, I came” – 9 lies you shouldn’t tell your man

by Jenna Birch Whether it’s singing his praises or faking an orgasm, lying about between-the-sheets fulfillment happens a lot. “These jeans were only $30!” “No, I don’t care that your feet are on the coffee table.” White lies don’t doom a marriage, right? “We don’t want to upset, annoy or scare our spouse, so it’s... Read More

Andra Brosh, Chemistry, Helen Fisher, lies, Relationships

October 30, 2012

Sneaking around ladies? 8 moves that will ensure you don’t get caught

by Ugg If you hook up with the right guy he may be very, very good, and that will be a very good thing for you, but keep in mind what your goals really are. If you need and want some good hot sex where you climax a dozen times in four or five hours... Read More

Adultery, affairs, cheating, Love, Relationships, sneaking

October 30, 2012

Should you date someone at work? 10 pros and cons of office romance

by SirListALot There are serious things that should be considered when you start an office romance, as dating a workmate has serious implications on all aspects of your life, and also effects those around you. There’s an old saying that comes to mind – don’t dip your pen in the company ink! In the mid... Read More

Love, love and relationships, office romance, Relationships

October 11, 2012

15 ways to tell your husband may be gay… don’t laugh

by Stevenson Billings Right now in America there are over 2 million couples secretly struggling with homosexuality in their marriages. Are you one of them? Are you having intimacy issues? Are you suspicious about your husband’s late night activities? Or are you oblivious to a problem that could be putting your health and the livelihood... Read More

downlow, gay, Love, Marriage, Relationships

October 11, 2012

Ugodre talks Figures: How to look expensive on a cheap date

But should spending so much money on a date determine how impressive a guy is on a lady? Aren’t there other ways of achieving that without spending so much? My friend Ken was recently introduced to a beautiful lady whom he hoped to impress on their first date. He thought the best way to impress... Read More

dating, Relationships

October 7, 2012

7 reasons I’m totally over weddings

by Anna Goldfarb I don’t think wedding fever is going to end anytime soon, so I propose that we apply this level of enthusiasm to other life events. As a woman in my 30s, weddings are constantly up in my grill. I’m bombarded with wedding talk both in my personal life and in most entertainment... Read More

cost, expenses, facebook, parties, Relationships, Weddings

October 6, 2012

Opinion: Is it ever okay to sleep around?

by Marni Battista You could find midway through sleeping with multiple partners that this is exactly what you needed. One of the ways that people cope with divorce is jumping from relationship to relationship — or getting over someone by getting under someone else. When you’re dating after divorce, is it ever okay to sleep... Read More

dating, Dating After Divorce, Divorce News, Love, Marriage, Marriage Problems, Relationships, Sex After Divorce, Sleeping Around